When you women say that you are too tired for making love, well, is that an excuse or does it realy mean that? I am a man so I just don't understand. When I am tired and my wife initiates romance, I am allways ready to go.
2006-06-08 05:08:16 · 7 answers · asked by Andy S 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
there was a test done in multiple groups of men, and multiple groups of women where there would be a loud noise initiated. the stress level in both groups rose, but went down quicker among men, than women. lesson: stress level among women are higher and longer than men, stress makes women feel tired and dampens her libido. give her a massage once in a while, don't make her feel like a sex machine or something. i know it's boring, but cuddling and taking care of her decreases her stress level. give her a back rub and ask her how her day has been. (you can pretend to "listen" if you want) but it helps when a woman vents all her frustration. it's like unloading a really heavy baggage. try to make her relax... THEN she will be in the mood again. good luck!
2006-06-08 06:16:01 · answer #1 · answered by PC 2 · 6⤊ 1⤋
In our relationship, if either one of us is too tired to make love, then we say so and the other one isn't hurt. We don't force each other to make love/have sex. That is totally wrong. We have been together for 1 year. I don't know how many times each of us has said that we are too tired, especially him since he works on a farm, sun up to sun down, 5-7 days a week. Making love has to be wanted by both parties, not forced on by the other party.
2006-06-08 13:01:18 · answer #2 · answered by honey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would she feel if you told her you were too tired to go to work every day? Too tired to bother to listen to her talk? Too tired to take her out? If we believe something is important we make sure we are not too tired, or we do it anyway.
Your wife initiates romance sometimes? You don't have it so bad.
2006-06-08 12:58:40 · answer #3 · answered by Doctor 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her an Red Bull. Wait 5 minutes then if she is not in the mood ask her what the problem is. If that doesn't work then make a schedule where she knows there is going to be some loving' tonight.
2006-06-08 12:23:22 · answer #4 · answered by Steve O M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see right there, its a catch 22!! cause when shes tired or doesnt want it, we have to abide by it. but ill be damned if we say we're tired or dont want to ( which is f**kin crazy talk to a guy cause we always want it no matter what, but i just have to put that out there to make my point ) we're sh!t out of luck!!...and we have to be understanding when she doesnt want it and accept it..when she wants it, she gets it, when she wants it and we dont, she gets it, but when she doesnt and we do, tough luck for us!! but then again its also a double standard, cause sometimes when she/he is "tired" either means she/he is getting it somewhere else or is "TIRED" of you!!...keep that in mind
2006-06-08 12:22:43 · answer #5 · answered by lastofodyinbreed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well is she having an affair im a woman and i dont get that either im always ready for my man so the only thing i can think of is she cheating on u
2006-06-08 12:13:29 · answer #6 · answered by Diana K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both,sometimes were tired and sometimes we just dont want it. tooooo much of a chore. try something new in initiating it. sometimes we get bored with the same old crap
2006-06-08 12:14:02 · answer #7 · answered by toni h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋