ihave this woman friend who believes we could be friends with benefits and i dont think that it can happen without some body getting hurt what do you think?we are both married and we dont want our partners to find out she say its just sex and she wont tell if i dont
2006-06-08 05:05:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yes ive been there and yes u can have *** buddies in the long run it will eat at u that u cheated or she will find out belive me she will is this *** buddie worth your marrige ??????
2006-06-08 05:09:39 · answer #1 · answered by Diana K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone will get hurt because you are being dishonest and dishonesty brings a lot of consequences. Sex is not worth all the pain and suffering your spouses will suffer. DON"T DO IT. have some respect for your wife, yourself and family. THis woman needs help and you can't help her. avoid contact. do it before is too late!
2006-06-08 12:10:53 · answer #2 · answered by A_Latina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am not married and yes there is a such thing as friends with benefits but I would not participate while I was married.
2006-06-08 12:19:10 · answer #3 · answered by 3DDD 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I have friends who are married and have friends with benefits. Make sure you do it discreetly and cover your tracks. Most importantly be careful how you act. You don't want your spouses to be suspicious.
2006-06-08 12:10:54 · answer #4 · answered by scarlett_038 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BAD IDEA!!! It will NEVER work. One of you will get hurt and your spouses will find out and they will get hurt too. Don't be selfish and take your vows seriously. If you want this other woman...DIVORCE YOUR WIFE!!!
2006-06-08 12:07:36 · answer #5 · answered by jrhod263 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES. It's working for us and we're both in the exact situation as you are right now.
2006-06-08 12:13:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm not married or anything and I'm straight.. but me and my bestfriend (shes a girl) like to have fun together... and NOBODY knows it!! But if your married... nooooooo you shouldn't do that!
2006-06-08 12:08:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OUCH, she won't tell.....HAHAHAHAHA Yes she will and then you'll end up pissed at her, and you'll also be going thru a divorce where you'll lose half if not all you have.
2006-06-08 12:11:13 · answer #8 · answered by StephNLee2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sooner or later it will come out. if you do decied to do it be Very careful .
2006-06-08 12:16:05 · answer #9 · answered by Justine G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously if you are considering this than things are not well on the homefront...put this energy into your marriage
2006-06-08 12:08:30 · answer #10 · answered by mick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋