so my gf broke up w/ me 2day b/c she lovez her ex gf n b/c we've been fightin. she's acting like all of the fightz were my fault, n they werent. im not say'n they were all her fault, either. she asked if id wait for her if thingz dont werk out w/ her ex, but i said no b/c that's like usin me for a back-up, u kno? now she jus e-mailed me say'n shez gonna give me one more chance, but she also said she wantz to try bein w/ sum1 different. shez obviously lookin for sumthin n im not it (at least that's my interpretation). i love her but i dont want to be with her if she has feelingz for sum1 else, too. wut should i do, n y cant she make up her mind?
2006-06-08 04:55:06 · 8 answers · asked by soccergrl1489 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
r u a les? cuz i am sooo confused by ur question
2006-06-08 04:58:00 · answer #1 · answered by xxgymnast_with_an_attitudexx3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your girl is wanting her "cake" and to eat it too.
try looking inside yourself and figuring out why you love her. maybe it's because you're comfortable with her, and if so, maybe you should look elsewhere for that comfort, because it seems that your relationship with her is not a healthy one.
you're obviously upset and that makes me sad. it does seem like she's just using you. you're worth more than that. i'd cut off anything beyond a simple friendship with her. but you need to decide what's good for you.
2006-06-08 05:01:06 · answer #2 · answered by water_loves_fire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her go she doesnt know what she wants and u will get hurt in the long run find someone to love u good luck diana
2006-06-08 04:58:55 · answer #3 · answered by Diana K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Email her back and tell her no thanks, she's not doing you any favors by wanting to come back. Life is too short to be playing these games and if she wants to play games, then go find some kids and play a game with them.
2006-06-08 04:58:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your right, she is using you as back up. Tell her to hit the road and then she wont have any problem making up her mind
2006-06-08 04:58:12 · answer #5 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i always tell myself...if its meant to be, they'll come back to me...dont chase a b*tch, replace a b*tch...obviously if you guys cant work this out...you need to go your seprerate ways...there's always something better around the corner...
2006-06-08 05:01:01 · answer #6 · answered by RaCHeL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on....it is over and that is probably for the best
2006-06-08 04:58:52 · answer #7 · answered by mick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May she haven't or may be you
2006-06-08 04:59:23 · answer #8 · answered by a_ebnlhaitham 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋