Me & my boyfriend had sex & used a comdom but i hadnt come on my period i needed 2 be on at,,,30th may ive told my boyfriend & he's trying to help but me & him are so scared we're both 14 nearly 15 HELP!!!
2006-06-08 04:40:33 · 27 answers · asked by xxxStarxxx 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I don't personally think everyone should be having a go at you for having sex when they dont even know you. Its damn rude! You made that choice. There will be a local youth centre near you which will have a sexual health clinic weekly. Go there and you can get a test for free :-) .Its all confidential so ur folks won't know.
Dont worry you're probably nervous and its causing your period to be late. mine was late after my first time but everything's fine. make sure it doesnt get between you and ur man coz that would be terrible.
good luck and trust- you'll be fine hun! don't worry!
oh yeah whilst ur there grap some contarception pills- theyre easy to take and help prevent little worries like this!
2006-06-08 05:29:44 · answer #1 · answered by summer_icecream_fairy 1 · 5⤊ 5⤋
You took a chance sweety and while condoms are a good idea for preventing you from getting diseases, they are not the most full proof method of stopping you from getting pregnant. Generally people use them as well as something else such as the pill though you are probably a bit young for that yet.
First of you need to make sure you have a problem, at your age periods do not always come on time. You can buy a home pregnancy test in the pharmacy (if your from usa you may call it the drug store). You could also go to the doctor in confidence, and let him do the test, he wont go to your parents as there is doctor patient confidentiallity, this way you can be sure the test has been done correctly. This is in my opinion what you need to do.
If you are not pregnant then ask yourself do you want to have sex and all the hastle that goes with it this early, if the answer is yes then again see the doctor and get some more reliable form of contraception. Keep using the condoms as an extra help, by the way I got pregnant on my 15 year old while using those. you must be sure to put them on correctly also, sounds silly but is actually a problem for some people.
At the end of the day if you are pregnant the worst thing your parents can do is give you a lecture, I warn my daughter not to get pregnant to but after I finished mouthing off a bit ..I would help her out, so will your mom and dad, sometimes the fear of telling and not knowing the outcome is much worse than admitting what happened, go on! get it over with, you can do it.
2006-06-08 04:56:26 · answer #2 · answered by Sam k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all DO NOT panic - if you used the condom correctly there should be no pregnancy.
Go to either a family planning clinic/doctors or to a boots chemist and pick up a test.
Read the instructions and do the test.
I doubt you are pregnant if you haven't had unprotected sex. But it might be an idea if you are going to continue having sex to see the family planning clinic anyway and get an additional form of contraception ie the pill and use that AS WELL as condoms.
Please be careful you are young and although babies are cute it isn't a good idea.
Hope that everything works out for you x
2006-06-08 23:46:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok..well. You didn't ask this question to be harped on by everyone. I know that it's kind of scary and stuff. Just relax and go about your normal schedule. Do what you normally do.
What you need is some good advice. Not people telling you to stop having sex. While I do agree that you shouldn't be having sex, you already have and now you do have to deal with this situation. You need to be ready to commit yourself to whatever may happen if you do have sex. So perhaps you do need to stop having sex for abit.
Go to planned parenthood if your period does come about within the next few weeks. Like I said, just relax and don't worry about it. Sometimes you can trick your brain into thinking you are on your period and it will make it so that your period is put off.
2006-06-08 04:50:31 · answer #4 · answered by Brittany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, at 14 it isn't uncommon for your periods to not be normal yet (even if you have had it for a year or two). Condoms are not full proof. You should take a pregnancy test, AND talk to your parents. If you are pregnant, you will have to talk to them anyway and sooner better than later so they can get you prenatal care ASAP. If it turns out that you are not pregnant REMEMBER HOW THIS EXPERIENCE MADE YOU FEEL. If it worries you this much, it means you probably aren't ready for sex and all the issues associated with it. Enjoy your childhood and wait until you are an adult to have to worry about adult issues..there will be plenty. Just beause you have already started having sex, doesn't mean that you can't stop and wait unitl you are truly ready for it.
2006-06-08 04:54:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way is to have a pregnancy test. You can get home pregnancy test kits from almost any pharmacy or chemist's shop....some supermarkets have them too.
Word of advice
At 14 you are too young to be involved in full sex. You ha other better things to do than sex....your education for instance. Parenting is not easy and definitely doesn't come cheap. You do not want to spoil the joy of youthfulness by becoming a parent now. Yes sex is fun and fulfils one of our god given needs and desires, but now is not the time for sexual intercourse. Now is time to grow. Don't deny yourself that chance because once its gone you will never relieve your youthfulness.
2006-06-08 05:11:55 · answer #6 · answered by allandyke 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop doing that at once.Consult a reliable doctor.Don't depend on comdom or any other pills,you still can be pregrant and moreover,your body will be hurt as you're too young.Stay calm and find the best solution.Ask you bf to stop .if he loves you truely,he will accept and help you.
2006-06-08 04:47:10 · answer #7 · answered by I love Lenny000000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do a pregnency test £10 from chemist, maybe even cheaper. You shouldnt have sex at 15 you are still children!
2006-06-08 04:43:40 · answer #8 · answered by smart_babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-06 12:17:43 · answer #9 · answered by vecchione 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are doing having sex!?!? Do you think it makes you an adult, because it doesn't. I got pregnant the first time using the pill and condoms. So you very well good be. You should not have sex until you are ready for consequences (ie: aids, children, herpes). Ideally you shouldn't have sex until you're married. PLEASE, learn from this and abstain from sex until you are ready to deal the consequences.
2006-06-08 04:44:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was your first time, then it can make your cycle go a bit wonky, if you don't come on in the next few days then go see a doctor, you really shouldn't be having sex at your age.
2006-06-08 04:44:45 · answer #11 · answered by Mummy of 2 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋