2006-06-08 04:35:49 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Notice, you said most, not all of your friends have boyfriends. You will find that relationships come and go and that in just a matter of months the situation may be reversed and you might be the one with a boyfriend while some other friend is suddenly without one. Love and relationships simply happen and it probably just isn't your time right now.
2006-06-08 04:41:02 · answer #1 · answered by rkrell 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Why is it important to you to have a boyfriend? Acceptance? Being "just one more like her?"
Unfortunately for most women and young girls, they tend to define who they are by their friends or by whether or not they are tied to a "boyfriend". Girls will not participate in what interests them---genuinely---because they save all their time for a boyfriend. Why is that?
Find out who you are....what do you want out of life? What are your goals? Get into things that interest you WITHOUT a boyfriend. Then when you know that you are a wonderful human being with or without a boyfriend, you will not settle for something that is less than what you deserve.
"Finding a boyfriend" for the sake of "having a boyfriend," is like shopping at the mall for a new pair of presciption eyeglasses that are not good for your vision at all. Your sight will be blurry, you will be dizzy and you will not be interested in reading or pursuing anything that requires you to see clearly!!!
The people you are meant to meet in your life are out there. You just have to figure out what makes you a strong, compassionate, faithful, clever, smart, and creative individual. Then you will not just settle for whoever is around.
2006-06-08 04:49:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because your friends have a boyfriend doesn't mean you have to. Try not looking for a boyfriend because most of the time when you are looking for a boyfriend you try to make a boyfriend out of everyone that you see.
2006-06-08 04:41:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem. All of my friends had boyfriends and I didnt all the way up to 10th grade. No boys that i liked seemed to even know i was alive, and if they did, they thought we were friends. That frustrated me of course. My best friend introduced me to this guy, who goes to a different school. He is now my boyfriend, my first boyfriend. My advice would be to step out of you comfort zone, give hot guys your number at the mall and tell them you interested. (not in sex, unless you are). But do something that will make them remember you. They'll be crawling back for more! Although that didnt really answer you question at all, i hope it helps.
2006-06-08 04:42:45 · answer #4 · answered by Boo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps because you're thinking of it terms of "getting", like a piece of luggage or a disease. Boyfriends develop, they're not something you own or catch. You simply haven't met the right guy yet. Don't be in such a hurry, and don't settle for just a guy so you can "get" or "have" a boyfriend. When you date, date several guys, don't limit yourself to just one. How on earth can you find the permanent right guy for you if you only date one guy a year??
2006-06-08 04:41:09 · answer #5 · answered by PuterPrsn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For any number of possible reasons:
- You are more selective about whom you date
- You haven't met the right person yet
- They have relationship skills that you don't
- They're sending boys signals that attract them
- They dress/act like they want to attract male attention
Don't have a boyfriend just to keep up with your friends. Have a boyfriend because you are genuinely attracted to him and you are a good match.
2006-06-08 04:40:35 · answer #6 · answered by Dr. Doom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same position, and everyone has been telling me that i just haven't met the right guy yet. It doesn't bother me to wait b/c i know that eventually I will have one that is better than any of my other friends simply b/c I took my time to pick the best one out! good luck
2006-06-08 04:44:35 · answer #7 · answered by purple_lilly_padz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey dear hi, Its not easy to get any boyfriend or girlfriend in this world.You may feel lonely, sad, unhappy but there will be some one else who wants to be yours and every min he will be giving you hint might be you're ignoring him or it is also possible that you will get a prince charming and this term is your test which you have to pass to get him.
2006-06-08 04:47:22 · answer #8 · answered by coool boy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheer up..ur friends relationship might not work as u when u've found 1 later cos the one that u found is ur ultimate love..
2006-06-08 04:39:51 · answer #9 · answered by munchen2186 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont follow or envy people your turn will come sit tight
2006-06-08 04:45:09 · answer #10 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋