I want to become a strong and independent?

Question

woman.... Don't giggle, "I am serious!" How does one make them selves this way?? Serious answers ONLY please...

FYI... " I am 36"

Answer 1

Well for starters. I must say that no person is an island. That's why we live in a society. You can be strong and self reliant.
For that, get a proper education as knowledge is power. Get yourself a good paying job.
I hate to tell this, but unfortunately. Our current society is fill with scavenger men who keep looking for women like you. So, protect yourself against them. And thats going to be a big challenge. But you can do it with determination.
So all the best. Feel free to ask me for any advice. I am not a wise old guy with answers to all your problems but i can try and help you out.
Take Care

Answer 2

First thing is... start feeling and constantly telling yourself that you are strong and independent bcoz what you think you become.

Next, Stop caring about what others say. Not as u just did. Why should you bother whether giggles or laughs. If you think you are correct then you are. But make sure that you have enough reasons to prove that you are correct. This appraoch will make you strong.

To become independent, stop taking help from others, instead start helping them. This will automatically make you strong.

The most important thing is that stop taking decisions after getting influenced from other's words. Take your own decison wisely that will be good for you and for other around you. This will keep you happy and you will acheive whatever you want.

Enjoy your life. Best Wishes

Answer 3

Well try answering these questions in you head.
1. Why do you date?
2. Have you ever offered to pay the bill?
3. Do you do any hard labor around the house?
4. Can you figure things out on you own?
5. Can you live without a man for more than 6 months?

If you answered yes to 2 threw 5 then you are already independent. If you answered no to 2 threw 5 then do you get your boyfriend to do those things for you? If so try to do things on your own. You will be physically stronger and much more independent. I hope this helps you.

Answer 4

You can start by taking control of your own life and you future. I'm not sure how hold you are but independence is something that is often developed over time. Women who are strong and independent tend to rule their own lives and career paths. Start by sitting down and figuring out what it is that you really want from this life and starting setting goals as to how you will achieve them. It is important to remember that to be strong and independent does not necessarily mean that you will not depend on others. You will always need people around you for as long as you live. The true sense of independence and strength is that you grow to control your own destiny and establish your own path as you go for your dreams. GOOD LUCK!

Answer 5

I think the best way for you to become strong and independent is learning from your mistakes and taking care of yourself !

Better yourself for you ... make sure you are # one in your life and show everyone how :

tough, passionate, dedicated, confident, self-sufficient, liberated, intense, self-reliant you really are !

I've been through a lot in my life and I think the number one thing that has made me strong & independent is life experience - taking in the good and changing the bad. Life is hard and it's up to you if you're going to enjoy it or not. You have the choice to change your attitude or emotions !

Answer 6

Ok, as you know, I am not a woman but I will try to answer this for you because well, it's you! You need to have confidence in yourself! You are still young, your probably very healthy and you have many things going for you. What works for me is to just be positive, I know it sounds corny but try to keep a positive attitude about things as much as possible. Yes we still have our bad days but try not to let things get you down for too long. Look at the positive side of things. Once you start doing this, you will gain confidence, confidence in yourself! As you do this, you will become stronger and independent. I'm guessing that you already are this way but you don't realize it. Take a few moments to think about it. Think about where you are in your life. I bet you will see that you are already pretty damn good!

Answer 7

By knowing you already are. By taking a strong and independent inventory. What do you do that could be considered strong and independent? Do more of it. Be friends with people that encourage your independence. Be friends with people who have the attributes you value. Is your partner controlling? Mine was. I had to let go because I didn't know myself until I did. Take risks - when they have a positive outcome, you learn that it is OK. Good luck!

Answer 8

Depend on yourself and when something needs taken care, you jump in and do it. Take the time to make smart decisions, don't rush into anything. When you believe in something, stand your ground. People will soon realize you are a strong willed person and will not back down, you can hold your own and fight your own battles. It's all about mind over matter.

Answer 9

By focusing on what you want in life and only excepting the best in life think of life as a challenge you cant always have help you have to do more things for your self and focus on freedom and happiness everyone needs to be happy right, and that makes you strong you dont always need to be in a relationship to be happy ,achieve more and you will be in the right path.

Answer 10

First of all, start liking who you are as a person,,try each and everyday to be the best person that you possibly can,,,you know what is right and wrong,,dont let your ego get in the way of your life,,,when you learn to love yourself , then you will truely be independent and strong