He cheated on me with a woman for year while we were together, i have tried to overcome this, and have its took a little time, but things got a little better for us, now things seem to be getting worse everday it wouldn't hurt so much if i didn't love him , and also we have a 5 year old daughter together that even makes it more complicated to deal with. He says that all he wants right now is to be left alone is that end to our relationship.
2006-06-08 04:27:54 · 15 answers · asked by Peaches 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
When we get cheated on its like being in shock and only time will help you get over it.
Some people think finding another person will work.... { Wrong! }
Friends or great company try to hang with a girl friend and find some interesting things to keep your mine occupied.
2006-06-14 23:58:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to say (especially since you have a little girl), but if you are having these troubles BEFORE getting married, walk away. A divorce does not come cheap! Not to mention the fact that if he was cheating on you, he's not worth your time (and staying with him wouldn't be a great model for your daughter. Would you have her stay with a cheating son of a b****?)
2006-06-08 11:45:28 · answer #2 · answered by Lizzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a right b*stard. Move on. There a tonnes of men out there with good hearts who don't cheat. Go and find yourself one honey and put him behind you. I know it's difficult with the child involved, but try and be neutral when he visits her. Don't let him see how upset you are. It only gives him power and they love that.
2006-06-08 11:32:15 · answer #3 · answered by happy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he gave you your answer. i know it hurts but try to get involved in something that will keep your mind off of it. time does heal all and as hard as it is now try to remember that he actually did you a favor. at the very least you don't want to marry someone who doesn't want to be married to you and on a much larger scale you don't want to marry someone who cheated on your before you even got married. try as hard as it is to look at the good side of what happened. if you were to have married him neither of you would have been happy and you don't want to raise your daughter in an unhappy home and have her think its normal for daddy to cheat on mommy and for mommy to let daddy run all over her. think of your daughter and try to get involved in something that will keep your mind off of it until you are ready to try again. i am a firm believer that there is someone special for everyone and you will find him. i know you had your heart set on this guy in particular but he actually did you a favor.
2006-06-08 11:33:35 · answer #4 · answered by amyclay350 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, without being blatantly ugly, he has told you, it's over. A hard pill to swallow I know, but you must let him go, and move on. He is not interested in a relationship with you any longer. Move on, and find a good guy to date. Good Luck!
2006-06-08 11:33:35 · answer #5 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, find someone else. Did you read your own posting? All the proof you need to hear that you should leave is right in there.
2006-06-08 11:31:01 · answer #6 · answered by teena9 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him time...dont sit here and wonder whats hes going to do take care of your daughter....if he wants to play games then play them...he probably thinks he has u on lock and he can come bak whenever he wants......go get out the house have fun wit ur friends...he will come bak faster than expected.
2006-06-08 11:31:35 · answer #7 · answered by META-4-RIC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't seem to get it right?
Move on...
Trust me... when you find the RIGHT ONE...
Things will go MUCH better.
2006-06-08 11:30:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on. there are millions of man in this world and 90% are better then ur fiance.
2006-06-08 11:29:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave it alone if it;'s meant to be love will take over an happen
2006-06-08 11:31:30 · answer #10 · answered by Krystal D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋