here it is, he was single, no life...got his kids faithfully everyweekend. we dated... that was ok. we moved in together....kids started having other plans.bought a home together(4 doors away from ex) kids were not allowed over to visit and sleep overs became very far and few between. we are now engaged, and see the children once in a blue moon. their mother has been telling the kids their father is a bad guy and has no time for them. whats up with her? shes remarried.... why isnt he aloud to have someone too?
2006-06-08 04:26:51 · 11 answers · asked by thepainter 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She must be a psycho just like my stepmom, maybe she just despises you, and probably for absolutely no reason, and doesn't want her kids to get close to you. Now that you guys live so close, it would be really easy for them to come over a lot, and maybe she is affraid of the kids liking you more. Fricken people do really wierd stuff and usually for no reason!!!!! If you haven't already, try calling her or going down to the house and asking her what the problem is. Good Luck!!
2006-06-08 04:35:01 · answer #1 · answered by Mel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well geeeeesh, where's the fun in having an ex if you cant drive them into the ground with slander and lies?....you see, part of divorce is the reminicsing and war story part of memory. This part of our personalities tells us we are better and not at fault for anything ( which is a lie ) that we were part of. It is "downright American" to slander your ex, It's like apple pie and baseball. Dont fret none though,.....It doesnt just happen to you,...it is happening to me as i type this message. It just means that I am still alive or that my ex has survived me!....Its just statistics and the kids know the truth already and will understand it more as they get older and will dismiss all the "BS" on thier own. And,...."no it isnt alright for him to have someone else" or, "for him to be happy in any situation".....he's a guy after all!.....the guy is always wrong!...trust me on this!
2006-06-08 04:44:42 · answer #2 · answered by theoregonartist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter what the ex thinks. What matters is that he's not going to put up with it and does what he has to do in order to see his kids on a regular basis. People like his ex you cannot reason with and talking to them will get you no where. Actions speak louder than words and this guy needs to spring into action ASAP for his kids sake.
2006-06-08 04:46:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might still be jealous. Even though she might be remarried doesn't mean that she can get over the fact that he has someone else that loves and cares about him.
2006-06-08 04:31:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is sad to say, but she is using the kids to get back at him. She is probly just an unhappy person to begin with and she hates seeing him happy with you.
2006-06-08 04:32:56 · answer #5 · answered by Ellyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Support whatever decisions your man makes towards his kids,if he wants to be involved in their lives there are legal ways to go about it
2006-06-08 04:35:06 · answer #6 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is just tell her that if he dosnt see the kids then he will take her to court and they will hand them over to him oh and tell her shes a rat
2006-06-08 04:31:18 · answer #7 · answered by temple_lynne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree... i hate that...but people too weak to follow their own dreams often find a way to discourage yours!...take her to court if the problem gets to great to handle..
2006-06-08 04:32:18 · answer #8 · answered by lastofodyinbreed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats how ex women get sometimes...they hate for the other to move on....
2006-06-08 04:29:59 · answer #9 · answered by META-4-RIC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is jealous he should take her to court and have the visitations court ordered so that she can't do that to him
2006-06-08 04:31:54 · answer #10 · answered by mimismom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋