i lead her to believe i was someone im not...
things got complicated and now im stuck in the web that i spun...
its hard now that she is into me and i know im being unfair to her
i wanted to say sorry and admit that i was wrong but what im concerned about is that perhaps everything will end up tragically between the two of us...
this sucks i know but what should i do?
please advise
2006-06-08 04:15:46 · 22 answers · asked by wheezer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You should eat a popsickle. It's summer and popsickles are not that bad for you, plus they cool you down.
As for the details part... Hmm...
I think you should go watch a movie together and just enjoy life.
2006-06-08 04:35:38 · answer #1 · answered by Cheshire Cat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look at it this way, she is bound to find out on her own sooner or later anyway, if she finds that you deceived her without owning up to it, I agree with the others that you can probably kiss the relationship goodbye. Your best chance now is to admit what you did to her, saying you did it to try and impress her and beg her forgivness..anything less than total sincerity will not go well for you. You do risk her ending the relationship anyway, but if you have to live a lie, its not much of a relationship to begin with, not to mention the fact you always have to remember your lies.
2006-06-08 11:25:00 · answer #2 · answered by zippo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is learn a big lesson from this.
Deception will cause problems in the long run.
Your deception will be found out eventually.
It's better if you tell on yourself. You may still lose it all.
If you wait to be found out the consequences will be worse.
But it's hard for you to see that now.
come clean as soon as possible.
And you can never find real love or happiness by misrepresenting yourself.
2006-06-08 11:20:18 · answer #3 · answered by BonesofaTeacher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love her/want to go further with her, then sit together and talk it out. Waiting will only thicken the strings of lies you made. Try to explain why you did that in the first place. Give her the choice to choose whether you two should continue together or not...she'll appreciate you're not taking her for a fool who accepts everything.
all the best!
2006-06-08 11:24:58 · answer #4 · answered by nadhace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunelty, you put yourself into that position. You must be honest with her and open up with the truth. If you truely care about her, then it is a risk worth taking..even if you may lose her. Next time just be yourself ( honesty). Good Luck
2006-06-08 11:19:48 · answer #5 · answered by beth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with the flow. Write everything down, and make a hit movie about your experiences.
Years from now you two will reminisce and LAUGH...
You might also try owning up with the truth and learning a lesson.
2006-06-08 11:18:31 · answer #6 · answered by bequalming 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth. Whatever happens is going to happen but at least you know you came clean with her and can stop deceiving her and yourself.
2006-06-08 11:21:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her the truth tell her that you wanted to get her attention by making yourself look good and then i got caught up in lies i am so sorry i would understand if you never wanted to talk to me again
2006-06-08 11:20:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her, and look on the bright side, maybe things will work out. U never know. She might know it's u and actually like u.
2006-06-08 11:18:05 · answer #9 · answered by no face, no name 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that you are sorry for what you did. If you are shy you should now not to be shy.Being shy is no help. Or call her and tell her you are sorrry.
2006-06-08 11:20:44 · answer #10 · answered by xoxo§kailey§ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋