it's for us am I waisting my time.
2006-06-08 04:05:46 · 23 answers · asked by redbone_lds 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If it is the case that you don't believe in marriage then that is fine. But, if marriage is a step you have always wanted to take you need to do some soul searching and decide why you are having doubts about marrying this guy. Your relationship has lasted much longer than many marriages so it is obvious that you guys have a bond. You did not mention how he feels about marriage, but if he wants to get married you guys really need to sit down and talk and see if you really are wasting your time or if you are just scared about taking the next step.
2006-06-08 04:11:34 · answer #1 · answered by tenesha g 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The stange thing about love and getting married is that even though you love someone and have dated for a while you tend to get scared when you talk about that perminate commitment. ppl change in a marrige because its a more relaxed situation. you should just re-evaluate your current relationship before you go on to that next step. My aunt and uncle were together 27 years unmarried then they jumped the broom and now they have separated and cannot stand each other.
Take 2 of deez and call me in the mornin'
2006-06-09 16:06:41 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. Love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love him, and you can't imagine yourself with someone else, then you are not waisting your time at all, I just got married, and believe me, I was soooo scared, I even doubted about getting married, but I still saw my life with him, so I did it... and everything is turning out great! but well, it's decision of both to take that step, and if you both are happy without the compromise of a marriage that's O.K., and enjoy your relationship! good luck! :D
2006-06-08 11:14:41 · answer #3 · answered by Bella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not everyone needs to get married to be happy together. If you are happy just being together without the paperwork and legality, then there's nothing wrong with that. If you're unhappy with it, then talk to your boyfriend. And if you plain just don't want to marry him or think the relationship is not going to last, well then talk to him about that too. Then consider taking a break. Good luck.
2006-06-08 11:09:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you never want to get married it's not a waste. But if you are the type that wants to settle down, get married, have kids. Sounds like yeah you are wasting your time with this guy if nothing has happend yet. I mean did he even put a promise ring on your finger?
2006-06-08 11:11:52 · answer #5 · answered by ♡LiL♥Kitten♡ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like waisted almost 6 years to me.
2006-06-08 11:07:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's not for you then you shouldn't. A piece of paper will not change your love for each other. All it does is make it right in God's eyes and gives you legal rights to each other. If something were to happen to either one of you then the other would be able to take care of things. If your young then you can always do it much later in your life.
2006-06-08 11:08:34 · answer #7 · answered by vancie121 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask him what his intentions are. I've been with my girl for 14 months and I'm proposing at the end of this month. I'm 27 and dated a lot of women in the past. Point being, when a man knows, he knows. You may be in a dead end relationship. Confront him.
2006-06-08 11:35:10 · answer #8 · answered by JRICH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont understand. if marriage isnt in the picture in a relationship... then where is it going? seems like you kinda shaky about it since you not sure. maybe hold that thought a little longer when you have a more deffinate answer whether or not of you think you and your boyfriend should tie the knot.
2006-06-08 11:10:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No move on if you don't feel that way after 6 years you are ready to go you will probably fall in love and marry in a year.
LOL
2006-06-08 11:08:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋