if someone you loved dumped you, went back out with you, cheated on you, blamed you for it, and had someone new they said they loved only a week after they cheated on you would you want to be with them again?
the girl is now single again, and i may have another shot. all i want to do right now is to hold her in my arms, kiss her, and tell her that i love her. i miss her so much, it actually physically hurts sometimes. i accidentally called her the a few days ago and had gone by where we had first kissed, and nearly broke down emotionally. i wound up making some rather unsavory choices involving a ladyfriend yesterday, and learned that if you're an ugly girl, it only costs $25 to make out with me. my ex even texted me last night saying that she was where we first kissed, and i just stood there stunned, while the people i was with all asked "what's wrong? you look like someone died." what the hell is wrong with me? she has broken my heart twice, and i still want to be with her!
2006-06-08 03:57:21 · 12 answers · asked by wes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
oh, and as a note, i was paid the $25. she wanted me.
2006-06-08 04:37:59 · update #1
This is definitely not a healthy situation. You need to try and take a break. It is obvious that she has an amazing control over your emotions. True relationships are ones in which both parties can be strong without each other. Although your life feels incomplete without her if it were meant to be so many problems would no be going on.
2006-06-08 04:06:36 · answer #1 · answered by tenesha g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time my Friend heals all wounds. I know it is not what you want to here right now but stay away. I had the same thing happen to me, completely devastated. But there Finlay came a time when one day I woke up and instantly was over her and I really mean that. What a feeling of finally being free of all the depression and hurt. Learn from your past and say to yourself that you deserve to be treated much better. In your next relationship though, be careful not to set up a wall to protect yourself, I did just that, I told my self that I would never get that close to a woman to be hurt again. I have been married for 12 years now, 20 years after my fist break up and am realizing for all those years I have been doing just that. Thing for the past 12 years have not been the type of marriage one would dream of but now it is better than ever. I have finally got past holding back all of myself to stay safe. I have finally realized my wife deserves all of me. Its been a long time so learn from my mistake, you will love again, the next person will deserve what you have to offer, Don't hold back, thing are going too work out for the better, you will see.
2006-06-08 04:14:59 · answer #2 · answered by Andy S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, seriously?? Walk away... if she can do that to you and then try crawling back... just say no! Trust me, any woman who wanted to keep her man wouldn't have treated you so horribly... Yeah it will hurt cuz you keep thinking about it... and let me guess, she is possibly the first girl you've ever loved? Sometimes you have to move on for your benefit... Think of it this way... if you had a girl pal that had a guy do this to her, would you tell her since he is single again to give it another go... or would you kick his a$$ first then tell her to wait for another great guy to say what's up?? There are 6 billion+ ppl out there and your gonna waste your time with a ---- like that? Think more highly of yourself...
2006-06-08 04:05:40 · answer #3 · answered by nikadrianacl01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you have to decide for yourself; do you WANT to be continually abused like this? The ONLY person who can help you overcome this situation IS you. Yes, it will hurt, but, the alternative is hurting ANYWAY. If ther's going to be pain, at least let there be a productive REASON for it. Get away from this woman. Change your #s. Email. MOVE if you have to. But get AWAY from her. She is destroying you and having FUN in the process.
See a shrink. I know, I know. But sometimes those freaks really can help you figure out WHY you seem to be abusing yourself so. Good luck!
2006-06-08 04:09:05 · answer #4 · answered by Quietman40 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lot of people want what they can't have. the fact that she eludes you is obviously appealing to you. in a lot of cases its normal but they are more of a habit than a love interest. you have plainly said that you know she did you wrong on more than one occasion yet you still yearn for her. you need to quit having contact with her at all and get yourself involved in something that will take your mind OFF of her as opposed to going to places where you will remember the happy times. trust me time heals all and if you will just go out and do something to take your mind off of her then you will be ready to start over and find someone new who will love and appreciate you the way you deserve to be. the past needs to stay where it is in the past. look forward not backward and the pain will go away.
2006-06-08 04:03:17 · answer #5 · answered by amyclay350 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girl obviously has mental problems,and a condition that causes her legs to fly open in the presence of men.Its known as hoeitis.Run as fast as you can from her trailer park and find a young LADY with CLASS.
2006-06-08 04:05:29 · answer #6 · answered by MrBudbag 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, punt her as hard as you can and run hard and run fast away from that whole situation....
You are better off without her.....Let her play her games on her own time not yours....Like she seems to have done...Life is too short of crap like that...
Youll find Miss Right....It might take some time but it'll happen when you least expect it..
2006-06-08 05:04:28 · answer #7 · answered by mg_2478 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You keeping setting yourself up for failure. Why would want to keep opening old wounds. She keeps doing it cause she CAN! Move on! What is your deal anyway paying girls to make out with you. Are that messed up?
2006-06-08 04:25:05 · answer #8 · answered by Boss' n it 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you arent with someone that is deserving of you. You have to feel good about yourself and know that you can be with that true person that shares all that you do.
2006-06-08 04:01:05 · answer #9 · answered by crazzzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh sweetie...
I feel for you!
Do not let this girl treat you like a human doormat!
Get her out of your life for good.
There are too many nice girls out there for you to settle for this one!
I wish you luck :-)
2006-06-08 04:03:35 · answer #10 · answered by rvogelpohl2001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋