he moved about a month ago to the same city as his ex because he hates the city i live in so he moved back to where he came from but his ex is there and he still talks to her but hides it from me but i always find out some how and it really hurts my feelings because i don't want to see him with her i want him with me but he doesn't have the same feelings for me, i don't know what to do!
2006-06-08 03:55:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if he dont love you find someone who will.
2006-06-08 03:57:19 · answer #1 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear, you have not stated clearly how you find out that he meets his ex.If its from some outside source then you better talk to him.
Sometimes it so happens that ex lovers do become great friends.So you must not be suspicious at first,coz doubts and suspicions shatter relationships.
The best way to solve it is call him down for a coffee at some quiet place and talk to him frankly, COZ WHERE HEARTS ARE CLOSE NOONE SHOULD COME IN BETWEEN TO INTERFERE,RIGHT?
If even after that you see that he has lost interest in you then you both better say goodbye to the relationship.You know what ? the only thing people cant do properly is bidding GOODBYE to a relationship.After all life doesnt stop for anybody!
So go ahead but dont take any hasty decision.A cool headed talk is a must!
Best of luck!
2006-06-08 11:07:43 · answer #2 · answered by Koel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't have the same feeling for you there is nothing more for you to do. And hes hiding talking to his ex for a reason. Get yourself together and move on to the next guy.
2006-06-08 10:58:58 · answer #3 · answered by crazzzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like your only option is to move on. Evidently he still cares for her and there is nothing you can do to change how a person feels about another person. If that was the case then my life would be different right now. Move on and be with someone who loves you as just much as you love them.
2006-06-08 11:00:36 · answer #4 · answered by twinkle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go. First of all long distance relationships are hard. Secondly, he moved closer to his ex. If he really loved you, he would have tried to stay closer to you no matter what. It sounds like he's just making up excuses because he wants to get back with her.
2006-06-08 10:58:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Catch yourself before you hit the ground! He's w/ his ex-g/f. Forget about him, there are plenty of others out there without any baggage.
2006-06-08 10:58:56 · answer #6 · answered by Andrew P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He DOES NOT LIKE YOU. Get over it. If you waste your time trying to get him, you will miss the next guy who comes along, who might be Mr. Right.
2006-06-08 10:59:58 · answer #7 · answered by Spencer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on you'll find someone better who will have the same feelings for you
2006-06-08 10:59:04 · answer #8 · answered by Eho 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe go visit him and talk to him about it and see what he says, who knows if you care that much maybe you can move out by him then.
2006-06-08 10:57:49 · answer #9 · answered by Littlebruiser98 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will survive, we all do, but right now you need vodka
2006-06-08 11:00:10 · answer #10 · answered by Andy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to make good confersation, just made you looking great in front of him,
2006-06-08 11:05:28 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋