I have sometimes thought that I have 'fallen in love' at first sight
But after further investigation...I always realise that I was mistaken!
Is it possible to fall in love with someone just by looking at them.
What about after the first day of knowing someone...
Aren't first apearences deceptive?
Do some people just give off 'vibes' that attract you to them.??
2006-06-08 03:54:25 · 10 answers · asked by Kraljica Katica 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes, I think it can happen ... in fact I know it happened to the daughter of a friend of mine.
She was working as a tour guide in Spain and came into the room to meet a new lot of tourists. As she looked them over, her eyes were drawn to one person and (she said) her knees went weak and her mouth went dry and she doesn't know how she got through that session.
As the meeting broke up, the guy approached her and asked what she was doing that evening. She is a rather pretty girl and, of course, being the tour guide she was the focus of all eyes, but he said that he had had exactly the same experience as she came into the room.
No, this was not "all just a dream". That was two years ago and they are to be married this summer.
2006-06-08 05:47:11 · answer #1 · answered by Owlwings 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Yes I believe it's possible to fall in love at first sight. Right away you know what a person is like by their first appearance. For example, if their shirt is un-tucked, their hair is not brushed and greasy, the shoelaces untied, you know they don't care what they look like. Somethings people may try and hide, but after a few minutes of talking to anyone, you can get an idea of what they are like. As for putting off vibes, we all put them out there. Think about it...someone sets you up with someone else and you didn't want to, you're going to be putting off a "back-off" vibe when you meet. You find someone attractive, you're going to be sending a bit more "hey I'm interested" vibe.
As for after the first day, if you are really interested in someone, you can get to know them pretty quick, and by the end of the first day, if you're not feeling the love, so to speak, then you know that they aren't the one for you. Keep looking and you'll know when you "see" that person for the first time, that perhaps this is the person for you. Never give up hope, but always remember to keep an eye on physical appearances (clothing hair etc) and the way they treat others. You'll know one way or another if that person is right for you.
2006-06-08 04:09:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. authentic love skill loving someone for who they don't look to be because of ways they look. even if a guy or female were beautiful: they could be a soreness to stay with. you does not comprehend that in case you merely stated them for some seconds. Seeing someone on sight tells you not some thing about who they are. so no. Love in the starting up sight can not exist because "Love in the starting up sight" isn't love in any respect.
2016-11-14 08:46:08 · answer #3 · answered by dubinsky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it exists sounds like when people say that they are falling in love with the way someone looks which is really not smart. Love at 1st sight I really don't believe in
2006-06-08 04:00:30 · answer #4 · answered by chemicalbrothers13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't believe in it... if you love a person you have to ask yourself if you're willing to bear his children, if you're willing to take care of him -- in sickness and in health, are you willing to go through any hardships as a couple? if the answer is no, then it's not love. love has no boundaries, no limitations. it takes time to fall in love with a person. this is more like "lust at first sight"
2006-06-08 05:09:19 · answer #5 · answered by PC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible, although its still good to get to know someone. Sometimes its just lust. But I know its possible I just did it a couple of nights ago in Kansas City.
2006-06-08 03:59:42 · answer #6 · answered by Jason Heinze 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are lucky enough, i believe its possible, but realistically its probaly lust at first sight. even so, it could turn into love, there has been documented stories about such happenings.
2006-06-08 03:59:14 · answer #7 · answered by borderline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never believed in that at all. I have believed in lust at first sight and interest at first sight but never love.
2006-06-08 04:00:15 · answer #8 · answered by boomerang3que 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it dose, you just have to go for it when you see it. But there's no guarntee that it will last.
2006-06-08 04:29:11 · answer #9 · answered by bloody tear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i believe that because i have had that happened to me onece or twice
2006-06-08 03:58:56 · answer #10 · answered by kaeli s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋