2006-06-08 03:52:33 · 13 answers · asked by inocencia_10025 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
heeellloooooo restraining order!!!! call the police or seek a lawyer
2006-06-08 03:56:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way for something like this is to let the law handle it. Seriously. Unfortunately for irrational people like that, it's about control for them and the more you do to try and stop it, the more they feel in control and do it more.
So when you get a restraining order, this puts a whole new spin on it, it removes ALL of their control and makes them feel powerless. Very effective on the emotinal psyche.
If you think about it, a restraining order really isn't keeping anyone from doing anything. What it does it is drastically effects the emotional and mental psyche of a person which is why it's used. It robs someone of power and control. So if you have information such as her name and address which would be really helpful (even worth the $9.99 to get the record on the internet-very easy on google), I would take the couple of hours that it takes to do it.
Remember, it's about power and control for her, don't feed it by talking about it with anyone-just get the order and let her crumble to her knees when it's delivered. It'll cost you a total of about $40
2006-06-08 04:00:10 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. Phil-lys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to record all contact this woman makes with you and any confrontations or sightings. If worse comes to worse, file a restraining order against her, but do not wait until the situation gets out of control. You will need the documentation to support the order and make sure you keep all witnesses and their numbers as part or your record.
2006-06-08 04:00:14 · answer #3 · answered by swdMO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Document everything she does and get a restraining order against her. If she breaks the RO, do not hesitate to take proper actions against her. If she continues to harrass you, this would make a lovely law suit against her.
2006-06-08 04:52:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get an attorney, get a restraining order and get rid of the b*tch. Or you can always stab her in the eye with a soldering iron....probably not a good idea though ;-)
2006-06-08 03:58:09 · answer #5 · answered by jman83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can file for a restraining order, if her stalking is that intrusive.
2006-06-08 03:56:47 · answer #6 · answered by sonnenschein 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the police and file a restraining order. If you call the police when she is around you and they catch her, she can go to jail.
2006-06-08 03:56:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her ur completly cool and there is no hard feelings at all and she needs 2 move on and stop thinking of u .
2006-06-08 03:56:23 · answer #8 · answered by ahmed s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sock the bi**h up **** really whats your problem asking such a dumb *** question like that you should have beat her *** for dealing with your husband in the first place
2006-06-08 04:06:40 · answer #9 · answered by QUEEN OF LOS ANGELES 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a restraining order
2006-06-08 03:56:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋