Is something wrong with him or me?

Question

I have been friends with this guy for over two years, we have had sex throughtout this friendship. I enjoy giving/receiving oral. He tells me that he does not like performing oral on women, that he never has and has had past bad experiences with it. He says it has nothing to do with me. Recently, he told me about some past "unwanted gay experiences", that he was "drunk" when they happened. However, our last sexual encounter, he asked me to finger his A**hole. Could this be related to him not like given oral? Could he really be hiding being BiCurious?Gay? This is ending up being a weird relationship. Thx

Answer 1

sounds like he is in denial. he is trying to make himself enjoy sex with a woman which incidentally doesn't reflect anything about you. you need to quit having sex with him because you are just setting yourself up for a fall. he is at the very least bisexual. trust me most heterosexual men would cringe at the thought of a woman doing what he asked you to do. tell him you love him (as a friend) will support him 100% if he wants to try to come to grips with the reality that he is at the very least bisexual. You can't make that decision for him he has to do it on his own however you can protect your own feelings and the best way to do that is to end the sexual aspect of your relationship.

Answer 2

He's probably GAY. Most likely, if he asked you to finger his hole! Come on think about it, he's really not interested in oral sex with you anymore yet he asked you to finger him in his butt hole! That "unwanted" gay exerience was not "unwanted" it was wanted! Yuck.

Answer 3

SOME GUYS DON'T LIKE TO GIVE IT. I'VE DATED GIRLS WHO DIDN'T LIKE TO RECEIVE IT. I LOVE GIVING IT. BUT STAY AWAY FROM MY BROWN BUTTON. SOUNDS LIKE THE GUY IS JUST IN DENIAL ABOUT WHAT HE WANTS FOR SURE.

Answer 4

hell ye.thats not normal and thats that.

Answer 5

probably so!