I was with this boy for a year and a half maybe more. We both broke up to have a lil space. It was almost a month of us being apart b/c i thought we were for sure going to get back together. Then he said we couldn't because he got this gurl that he barely even knows pregnant. Yes, I know we weren't together but he said we would and that he lovd me. I mean we weren't broken up for even a month.I just never thought he wld do sucha thing. he was so different and swore he was never like other men.It wsnt like him at all. Im so heartbroken so depressed. I cnt understand anything. This is the 2nd time its happen to me. Do guys not like girls that are faithful to them? Who treat them with respect and show their love? Who make them laugh? What? In both relationships I have been nothing but faithful. How can I get over everything, I have this huge hole in my heart. I feel as if I can never ever trust men ever again. Nothing comforts me, I just need advice, I don't know what to do with myself
2006-06-08 03:44:38 · 8 answers · asked by chilenacc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
In this life we live in, can sometimes be cruel.. But keep in mind that we have to go through trials and tribulations, to make us stronger in life...
Don't let what 2 men did, and give up on others.. We have to go through bad seeds to be able to get to the right one...
In the meantime, keep yourself busy.. Don't be alone. Be around friends and family.. Go out and do things you enjoy, meet other people..
In time, things will get better for you and the Lord will bring you someone special in your life.... just keep the faith.
GOOD LUCK AND GOD BLESS!
2006-06-08 03:53:26 · answer #1 · answered by Torres 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I understand how you feel. Sadly when we fall inlove with someone we put our trust in them and the other person isn't always the most trustworthy person. we all sometimes feel like we know someone so well yet they always manage to show us otherwise at one point or another. the thing about it is I think this guy really did care about you cause I find when guys are hurt about a girl they go out and find a rebound asap..while girls tend to mope about the situation instead of running out and finding a rebound. that's probably why he got this girl pregnant cause he was trying to get you off his mind. the situation sucks really but in my opinion I think your better off. Atleast this way you've already been apart for a month so you've already gotten used to the idea of not being with him as often as you were and better you found out sooner than later that he was capable of something like this. now you just gotta take it a day at a time. Keep yourself busy..and trust me...someone else will come..they allwaayss do. there's billions of ppl in this world...I'm sure out of a billion people one is sure to come around. smile! and good luck.
2006-06-08 11:01:21 · answer #2 · answered by dreamangel_141414 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TIME heals all things. I can totally understand why you feel hurt but it's sad to say but that's life. I've been in a situation similar to that before and I survived. Guys do that kind of stuff but if you be patient the right one will come along who will treat you with respect, be considerate of your feelings, and make you feel loved.
2006-06-08 10:51:26 · answer #3 · answered by twinkle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would go have a night on the town. try and forget about him. if he can go and sleep with another girl that quickly, he never truly loved you, im sorry to say that. but its the truth. i have had the same thing happen to me except with me, it was the woman who got pregnant. she said we were split up when she did it but we were only split up for 2 weeks and she was 6 weeks pregnant. we hadn't even slept together yet!!!! just forget about him and try to move on. good luck:)
2006-06-08 10:52:47 · answer #4 · answered by Camaro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find another guy and move on...get out there and search girly.don't put him in your head all the time.there's better things to do than think about him..he's bad 4 u.godd luck.take my advice.<333 ya lotz hun.!;)<3!p.s. find a guy that respects u .and loves u 4 who u r.he'll b better 4 u.<3
2006-06-08 10:49:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a guy who respects you and is sweet and get over the one that did not work out.
2006-06-08 10:47:17 · answer #6 · answered by CHERYL S3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on. distract yourself by indulging in other activities like sports, games, etc. he doesnt deserve your faithfulness. its good that you were able to know his true color. stay with your principle and dont give it up. a lot of other men love faithful partners. time can heal.
2006-06-08 10:54:33 · answer #7 · answered by darryl b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
things like this happen,move on with your life,someone that cherish is almost about to get you
2006-06-08 10:50:04 · answer #8 · answered by rubzebred 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋