I have a boyfriend and we have been going out for 11 months but there is a huge problem i like this guy named Kristian and he is sooo hot i dont know what to do to get rid of my crush I cant avoid him.....please help me i really love my boyfriend and this guy even flirts with me and liked me....help
2006-06-08 03:42:45 · 8 answers · asked by brittany_glid1890 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Look at what you have with your boyfriend! 11 months isn't something to just ignore. Try doing something with your boyfriend that you haven't before. Go some place romantic or exciting. Something that will really add some excitement to your relationship, hopefully to make you not like this other guy so much. Just because a guy flirts with you and likes you doesn't mean you have to return the favor. Try to find some not-so-attractive things about him. Give yourself a reason to make him not good enough for you.
2006-06-08 03:46:46 · answer #1 · answered by goshimwaycool 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should try and set Kristian up on a date with a friend or acquaintance. It'll be painful, because you won't want to see him with someone else, but if you really can't make yourself do it then you'll know how you feel. And if you try and he won't go out with other people even if they're cute, then you know how he really feels. And if it does work out, and they go for each other, you'll be alot happier because you won't be distracted.
I have to say, though, it doesn't matter how long you're in a relationship or how much you love one another, you'll still get crushes. It's just part of life. My favorite way to get rid of a crush is watch how they treat other girls. No one could treat me better than my husband. No matter how momentarily attracted I am, everyone else pales in comparison.
2006-06-08 03:49:33 · answer #2 · answered by TheHza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh come on is this kristian really worth it? obviously your boyfriend was so you should stay with the comitment you have already and if things dont workout. then id try the k-dude but until then you love your boyfriend or else you wouldnt be with him, think about it , and if you really need help listen to Rihanna's song-Unfaithful.good luck
2006-06-13 10:00:21 · answer #3 · answered by ♥♥♥♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not in love with your boyfriend. Go out with this Kristian and find out if you are in love with him.
2006-06-08 03:45:03 · answer #4 · answered by vihlee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to be told it OK to want someone when you are already in a relationship,cant do that. Your conscience,your soul. what if he had the same problem how wold it feel then.
2006-06-08 03:47:26 · answer #5 · answered by nana199512 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all comes down to you. Pick the new guy or ditch your boyfriend.
2006-06-08 03:45:59 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my God, right?
If you loved your boyfriend, you wouldn't be thinking about cheating on him.
2006-06-08 05:23:00 · answer #7 · answered by Pitchow! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your young just decide what would be the best for you.
2006-06-08 05:35:22 · answer #8 · answered by Is 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋