What can I do about this?
2006-06-08 03:37:53 · 21 answers · asked by rox 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You KNOW what you can do about this. Why don't more people respect wedding rings anymore? Sheesh! Sometimes, I feel like one of the only people who looks at wedding rings on women like vampires look at garlic, crosses, or sunlight. As for your boyfriend, if you have acted on your crush, he deserves better, & you should let him go so he can find someone who will love him & him alone. I'll put it as simply as I can: single man good, married man bad. Don't be a homewrecker, leave the married guy alone, & work on making a relationship with your boyfriend or a future boyfriend that may one day work out into a marriage for you. Then, you'll really be glad you didn't ruin someone else's marriage.
2006-06-08 03:47:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Roxy, the phrase "crush on a married man" is an oxymoron. The man is married. You are not in the fifth grade. Crushes are for school girls. This is real life. The man has a wife and probably children. Do you want to be responsible for destroying that? Your boyfriend means very little in this to me because he's just that, a boyfriend. You didn't stand before God and the world and vow to "have and hold til death do you part" with him. The married man and his wife did that. Leave it alone.
2006-06-08 10:45:23 · answer #2 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Giving the Married man and signals is going to be more trouble than you can imagine. The relationship is doomed from the beginning.
How about just fantasizing about the man when you are with your Boyfriend. There is nothing wrong with that.
Perhaps you are just unhappy with your boyfriend. You need to find what makes you happy and the Married Man isn't the answer.
2006-06-08 10:44:26 · answer #3 · answered by Lazink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a married woman, I'd beat your *** if I could. Leave him alone! If you don't love or care deeply for your boyfriend then leave him alone too. If you respect the sanctity of marriage and if you someday want a man to marry and be faithful to you, respect the commit that man made to his wife. I will say that I am glad you asked for advice before moving in on this man. Be mature and leave him alone.
2006-06-08 10:42:56 · answer #4 · answered by proud_usmc_wife04 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay as far away from the married man as possible. If it's just a crush don't be the girl that ruins their marriage.
2006-06-08 10:40:17 · answer #5 · answered by becca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the married man alone and get on with your life. If you are not happy with your boyfriend find an available man to date and hope that it will blossom into something wonderful.
Again, leave the married man alone -- he has a commitment to his wife and family and you don't have any business interfering with it.
2006-06-08 10:42:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am married . i also have a crush on a man not of my race, i know that it's wrong, but i can't help how i feel !! i talk to him everyday sometimes 4 & 5 times a day !! you just need to sit down and think about what is more important
2006-06-08 10:41:28 · answer #7 · answered by babyboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the married man alone!!! Would you want some other woman to go after your husband when you are married??
2006-06-08 10:40:12 · answer #8 · answered by willinkc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the married man alone.
2006-06-08 10:40:17 · answer #9 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, love with a married man is not the answer. He will not leave his wife for you but will use you as a strange piece of a.s.s. only with no emotional attachment. You still have a chance with your boyfriend at least!
2006-06-08 10:42:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋