comfort and security...or exciting and intense?
2006-06-08 03:37:00 · 23 answers · asked by smilesfromred 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I did the comfort and security thing. It so did not work for me. You compromise so much of yourself just for the comfort of the other. You realize in doing this that you could have security for yourself and your kids. But where does life fit into these two concepts? I found that it didn't. You merely exist. Ok I merely existed. I do love getting out and learning and exploring. The more you learn the more passionate you become about life around you......that is where the intensity comes from.
I would have to opt for exciting and intense. I only pray that if I share this kind of life with someone.......THEY will find comfort and security in our relationship.
2006-06-08 08:48:11 · answer #1 · answered by Marianne not Ginger™ 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Exciting and Intense. Because it would mean some challenge to your brain and body activity and that when accomplished you would automatically get comfortable feeling and a sense of achievement and the security which comes out of it.
The first one is like bringing some body child whereas the second is producing your own child.
Comfort and security means you enjoy the fruits of some bofy elses labour and soon you would become useless to the society and a burden on the world.
2006-06-08 10:45:29 · answer #2 · answered by THATHA75 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would hope for both? Gosh I don't know which I would choose. I like to have security, but exciting and intense is also good. I would prefer a mix of both. I like a little excitement.
2006-06-08 10:39:57 · answer #3 · answered by goshimwaycool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An intensely secure ride at Disneyland or Knot's Berry Farm. Do I really have to choose. I jumped out of an airplane once, but I knew I had a money back guarantee if anything went wrong. The hardest part was the waiting. Once I was out it was an amazing experience from 4,500 feet up. 4, 500 feet down and my host would have been holding a pitch fork and sporting a red tail.
2006-06-08 20:05:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I choose comfort and intense, only because mixing and matching is so much more secure and exciting.
2006-06-08 17:00:06 · answer #5 · answered by Sanitizer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Comfort and security...exciting and intense can have a down side, believe me!
2006-06-08 11:16:00 · answer #6 · answered by Sassy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
long term i would choose comfort and security but i would hope for a little excitement and intensity anyway
2006-06-08 10:47:28 · answer #7 · answered by l81ucky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well........for someone who already has exciting and intense most days........I would love to have some comfort and security
2006-06-08 12:02:18 · answer #8 · answered by yellowsunfire1971 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since I am "older" now what's important to me and what I have is comfort and security.
The exciting anf intense only worked for me when I was younger but that only lasted for a little while.
2006-06-10 09:57:51 · answer #9 · answered by ☼♥Sweet Qt ♥☼ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Comfort and security. It is funny that you bring this up because there was a study recently published by The University of Toronto stating that women prefer stable guys to risk takers. Stupid behaviour is only impressive when you are young and stupid yourself.
2006-06-08 10:41:37 · answer #10 · answered by teena9 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋