I have a friend that has a high pitched voice and acts like he is gay but he has a had a few girlfriends i am not sure how to ask him if he is i have been friends with him since i was just lil and now im 16 what do i do PLEASE HELP!
2006-06-08 03:36:45 · 20 answers · asked by brittany_glid1890 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
If he is a good friend it shouldn't matter unless you want to date him. Just be a good friend to him and he will confide in you if he needs to.
2006-06-08 03:40:06 · answer #1 · answered by AlongthePemi 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are sensative. Also, not all gay guys have high pitched voices and act "like they're gay". He may be Bisexual, one wouldn't know. Just keep in mind not to pre-judge people. If you're carious, and you've known him long enough, ask him. Is he gay. Make sure to set him at ease first... like... "I know that we've been friends for a while now and I don't want you to freak out. Feel free to tell me the truth... are you gay?"
Some guys won't admit that they're gay... so if he denies it or his attitude changes suddenly, you can suspect that he's in denial. Hope this helped.
2006-06-08 03:42:49 · answer #2 · answered by dukeofhmong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best friend is sort of like that. Well, his voice isn't high pitched, but he's very into clothing and stuff. It could be possible that he's gay, but he says he's not. I don't think your friend is gay at all, guys are becoming more feminine I think. But does it really matter whether he is gay or not? If it won't change your relationship, then don't worry about it. Even though you are friends, his sexual preference is his own business.
2006-06-08 03:44:24 · answer #3 · answered by goshimwaycool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was so naive when I was a teenager...I had so many gay friends and I had no idea at the time. Now when I look back, it was so obvious. It would not have changed the way I looked at them then...but maybe they just needed to think about it themselves. Ask him, but don't pressure him and let him know that you are his Friend no matter what. Be careful though...asking a straight man if he is gay might make him feel bad.
2006-06-08 03:43:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just cause he's got a high pitched voice doesn't make him gay.
You have been friends for ages so why does it matter if he is gay or not.
2006-06-08 03:40:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it really matter to you? If he is, then he'll come out in his own way and time. Just keep being friends with this person, you seem to have a lot in common or you wouldn't have been friends this long. We have no way of knowing whether he is gay or not since we've never seen nor met him. Don't push the issue, don't worry about it, just maintain your friendship.
2006-06-08 03:40:50 · answer #6 · answered by nimo22 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men who are "gay" have sex with women all the time. That's because they aren't actually gay, they are perverted (as are most supposed homosexuals). A man who actually IS gay looks and acts just like everyone else....except he has relationships with men instead of women.
2006-06-08 03:50:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just watch how he hangs around with other guys and if hes had other girls then probably not, but i wouldnt be sur i know this guy and have known him for a long time too and i wouldnt be afraid to ask him that but i know hes not so i wouldnt. but if you really feel comfortable you wold ask him just ask i would just say this "dude how do you feel about your girl?" that or he just hasnt hit puberty yet!
2006-06-13 10:04:14 · answer #8 · answered by ♥♥♥♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've been friends for awhile then why do you care? Maybe he has not told you because it's none of your business. He probably knows your judgmental.
2006-06-08 03:41:07 · answer #9 · answered by cupidstunt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to have sex with him. If he runs away screaming into the night then he is gay.
2006-06-08 03:42:49 · answer #10 · answered by thissith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋