2006-06-08 03:20:32 · 11 answers · asked by Golosa 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
"You better sit down for this one, dear."
2006-06-08 03:22:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try marriage counseling before getting a divorce. People treat marriage as a disposable commodity, and it's very disturbing. You took a vow to love and cherish your husband through sickness and in health.
If he is physically or mentally abusive, that is an entirely different case. I think God makes exceptions for self-preservation, personally.
But if this is a matter of just "falling out of love", please try counseling. You may rediscover your best friend and save your marriage.
2006-06-08 10:29:20 · answer #2 · answered by la_la_la 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best way? i don't think there is a best way. the only way that is sit face to face tell them straight up. this is one punch that will knock the wind out of thier lungs. tell them as soon as possible, cause the question of how long have you felt this way will come up. the longer you wait the more painful it will be.
2006-06-08 10:27:24 · answer #3 · answered by frankumana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you no longer love him chances are he has sensed this anyway.
Sit down with him and speak truthfully. You aren't doing him any favors by letting him continue to believe that everything is ok when its not.
I think everyone would rather hear something honestly.
2006-06-08 10:23:15 · answer #4 · answered by yeller 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and talk honestly with him about your feelings. Be kind and not harsh and try to explain why you no longer love him and what has brought you to this point. You may need counseling and help here too and i know he will!
2006-06-08 10:43:26 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Don't Love You
2006-06-08 10:45:00 · answer #6 · answered by macster43 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions speak louder than words...what makes you think you need to "say" anything?
2006-06-08 10:23:16 · answer #7 · answered by themainsail 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do u want to say that? try to resolve any issues u have and life will be smooth again
2006-06-08 10:36:39 · answer #8 · answered by midas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to come out and say it stop leading him on
2006-06-08 10:25:06 · answer #9 · answered by shelby m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you love them anymore?
2006-06-08 10:23:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋