2006-06-08 03:17:20 · 34 answers · asked by *Krys* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No. You are just setting yourself up to be cheated on again and again. It is like telling him he can walk all over you because you won't stand up for yourself. Besides, if he is sleeping around, he could bring home an STD. Take care of yourself first!
2006-06-08 03:20:17 · answer #1 · answered by teena9 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask him why he done it. You also need to think about how your relationship with each other has been. Have you two been together a long time? Has there been more good times than bad times? But only you and him can figure it out. You need to have a talk to him and see what the real problem is. If he leaves or gets really bothered he prbably feels smothered and you two need to go out with friends seperatly and have some alone time, i can understand it's probably hard to let him do that for the fear he's going to cheat on you again but it's worth a try. If he does it again if i were you i'd kick him to the curb. You probably don't deserve it. Give him a chance and talk to him before you assume he doesn't, good luck
2006-06-08 03:21:54 · answer #2 · answered by Ash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not fall for the " I cheated but I still love you" BS. Gurl he cheated once a cheater always a cheater. look no female deserves to be cheated on. Go and find youself someone who will respect you, because if a dude cheats on you he in know way respects you or the way you two feel for each other. So find someone who treat you like the Queen that you really are.
2006-06-08 03:22:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When someone cheats on you - in the first place that person does not love you. There is no excuse for that.
I don't believe in second chances when your spouse or lover has slept with someone else. A relationship is something to be taken very seriously and a lot of people
dont realize that (sometimes until it is too late).
2006-06-08 03:35:21 · answer #4 · answered by Golosa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something women don't seem to understand is that the average man will say anything, do anything, jump through rings of fire...to please his organ.
In a society that doesn't fear God at all, you have to expect this sort of baloney. To cheat on someone is paramount to cutting someones throat. Cause it hurts that much. It may even make the victim feel suicidal.
Whether or not you choose to forgive him, is your decision. However, if you let him off easy, will it happen again and again?
How did you find out? Did he confess or did you catch him?
2006-06-08 03:27:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be true that he loves you but he will be keep on cheating as once a person cheats they can stop it. R u willing to accept him after each time he cheat?
2006-06-08 03:25:17 · answer #6 · answered by witch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends.. Is it the first time he cheated?
Sometimes when people stray, they realize that what they have is all they want. They made a mistake and are sincere when they say they are sorry..
However, if it is an on going thing. Then it is obvious that it will happen again... They didn't learn from the first one.....
GOOD LUCK!
2006-06-08 03:21:13 · answer #7 · answered by Torres 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends why he cheated. if he is just a creepy guy who likes sex and this is why he cheated then do not believe he loves you. if the two of you were having problems and he was all upset and emotional then it may have just been a mistake and he regrets it. then believe that he loves you. most likely he is not truly happy with you. let him go.
2006-06-08 03:21:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has nothing to do with "should" or "would". It has to do with "what is your boyfriend willing to do to prove his love, loyalty and faithfullness?". This answer is up to you, NOT him.
So sit down for a few minutes-right now!!_ and write down some things that you want and need from your boyfriend in order for you to move past it and trust him again, if you can.
BE SPECIFIC. Don't write things like "i need affection and love" that's not tangible. Write down things like "i want to hear from him every day, I want to know where he's going when he goes out with his friends, and so on. If he is unwilling to do that, than perhaps he doesn't necessarily love you, he just loves having you around. Big difference.
2006-06-08 03:23:24 · answer #9 · answered by Dr. Phil-lys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does cheating mean trust . If you know the answer, and i think you do. either forgive and forget or move on. Remember this. To accept and adapt are possibilities but don't try to change hi m. Hell either grow or not grow on his own, I wish you joy, comfort, hope and peace. Good luck and much wisdom.
2006-06-08 03:21:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋