tattoos?????

Question

i've had tattoos since i was 11.my husband saw all my tats the day we met. i even got a new one with his name in it. the other day i was saying i wanted to get one with our kids names. he said he didn't like my tattoos! we've been married 20 years and he's never said this to me. i can't believe he would wait this long to say something like that! he doesn't have any tattoos but that's ok with me. y would he say this now?

Answer 1

maybe he thinks that the ones you have are enough. It's really hard to answer this question because only himself would know the true answer. Sit him down and ask him why he said it and if he really meant it. If he had a problem witht he way you look he wouldn't be with you. besides he obviously loves you to be married so long. Don't let it bother you because no matter what he thinks you look like he still loves you for who you are, right?

Answer 2

He was probably afraid to say anything before in fear of losing you. Now that he's been with you so long and the subject came up, he voiced his thoughts on it. It's a lovely idea to get a tattoo with your children's name. Go for it if you want.

Answer 3

He loves you the way you are and doesnt want you to change so much. He probably thinks the tattoos would be excessive


Good Luck and God Bless!!

Answer 4

If you guys have a good relationship who cares so what if he doesn't like them, do you like everything about him and what he does....I doubt it , this is a not a big issue just say whatever I am getting another one and that's the end of the story, its your body.

Answer 5

Because maybe he did not feel comfortable about doing so til now. Just listen to him and dont get any more and maybe you can get some removed that you dont need anymore.