When you're so close to someone that both your lives seem one, how do you begin to separate yourselves as two individuals? How you begin to let them go so that their problem isn't yours anymore? How do you let them commit their own mistakes when all you've ever done is looked out for them and held them up everytime they've fallen down? Two becoming one is hard enough, how, then, do you split that one in two again??
PS: they haven't done anything wrong, they haven't changed - nor have I, it's just that due to unfortunate circumstances, we will soon be separated - by force, if you can call it that.
2006-06-08 03:07:59 · 4 answers · asked by conspicuous 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Time is the best friend in these situations. Time heals wounds. I am not saying completely.There will always be those scars. But you learn from them.I am not sure if the person who you love the most is a family member or someone you are involved with intimately. Meeting other people also helps. There will always be better days.
2006-06-08 03:14:03 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do it. It's going to be hard anyway since there is strong feelings there. And sit down and have a real talk with them. Let them know how you feel and what your thoughts are and then let them express themselves as well. But let them know that this is serious. And if you do go don't look back !
2006-06-08 10:11:49 · answer #2 · answered by one with no name 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really and truly love this person, you should not want this relationship to end. You should be able to accept the bad with the good and work any problems out between the two of you.
2006-06-08 10:21:08 · answer #3 · answered by Sweetgator2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is something in spanish that says, un clavo saca otro clavo. meaning one nail takes out another nail. start looking for somebody that can replace or fill the emptyness that person will be leaving.
2006-06-08 10:12:24 · answer #4 · answered by La Princesita Boricua 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋