Is it necessary to have sex with my boyfriend? He says he'll face some problem if he deosn't have sex. Is he telling truth? Does anybody know what the problem is?
2006-06-08 03:03:09 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
His problem is that he cannot be honest with you, he wants sex, if you don't give it to him he'll probably leave you. After you give it to him, he'll probably leave you anyway, so unless YOU want to have sex with him, let him go.
2006-06-08 03:07:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think we've all done this one at one point or another. I have a friend who actually told his girlfriend his balls were turning blue & would eventually die from lack of oxygen if they didn't have sex, & then if they got married, he wouldn't be able to give her children. Sad thing is, she thought it was so funny she gave in & had sex with him. Ultimately, sex is a natural part of a committed relationship, but shouldn't be entered into until both parties are ready. His problem is he is really horny & wants you really badly. When you feel the same way, you'll feel sex is necessary, but it doesn't sound like you feel that way at this time. If you aren't going to be willing to give him what he wants for a long time to come, perhaps you should let him go so he can find someone more compatible, & you can as well. Good luck.
2006-06-08 10:10:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem could be a variety of things. But it looks like your facing a problem too, a BIG one. He shouldn't be asking you to have sex. Sex is somethin beautiful that happens when both of you are ready. And obviously, you aren't ready. Don't feel pressured into it if you don't feel like you're ready. And if this guy winds up doing somethin stupid, i.e. leaving you, cheating on you. etc. just because you won't have sex, then you haven't lost much. Do what makes you happy, and if you have to question yourself, then you know you shouldn't be doing it. Best of luck to you! Much love and God Bless.
2006-06-08 10:09:13 · answer #3 · answered by BamaBelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
another naughty guy eh?!
i'm a guy and i should know right?
the answer is DUMP HIM!!!
you may say you shouldn't believe me because you don't even know me but sometimes those people behind these keyboards can help you a lot... and trust me... these is one of those SOMETIMES
underlying reasons here:
1. a man can leave without sex... vulgar as it may seem but we can masturbate (SORRY Yahoo!)
2. a man who wants to have sex isn't respectable at all
3. a man who wants to have sex doesn't respect you as well... kick his *** next time you see him (SORRY Yahoo!)
4. premarital sex is a no no!
5. if he doesn't have sex, he may face a problem, yeah, and that is losing a BET! yes, a BET! (who knows?!)
6. the problem? it's him, he doesn't know GOD!
ergo, it is not necessary if you're not yet ready to get married. remember this... a woman's virginity is her best gift to her husband! i think! "wink"
feel free to e mail me if you have other concerns, ayt?
ronacin4@yahoo.com
2006-06-08 10:23:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just trying to get what he wants. Don't rush yourself. You are in control of your feelings, wants and desires. The other comments about infidelity is probably right. If he doesn't get what he wants chances are he will find it else where. But then you will know he never cared about you. Remember be yourself and if you decide to be one of a very small amount that waits until married, know you maade the choice best for you. Be safe.
2006-06-08 10:18:03 · answer #5 · answered by C S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't have sex with him, hes bullshitting you, there is no such thing as having a problem because of not having sex. remember the less a guy has of you the more he wants and once you have sex with him a) first he'll completely change and your whole relationship will change and b) he'll get out as fast as he can
2006-06-08 10:07:19 · answer #6 · answered by kt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you two been together that should determine if you are ready. Also if you love this boy and you feel as you want to have sex with him. What hes probably trying to get at is he is going to cheat on you and he is willing to jeopardize his relationship with you over sex you dint really need him!
2006-06-08 10:08:34 · answer #7 · answered by carmel_dime_313 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a good friend of mine told me once "I've never seen it written on anyone's grave 'This man died due to lack of sex'"
He's not being honest. He will not have any problems if he doesn't have sex. Don't let yourself be pressured into it, I can guarantee that you will regret it later. It's your body, take good care of it, value it, and wait to share it with someone who truly deserves it. If a man really loves you for who you are, he will wait, and he will admire you for having saved yourself.
2006-06-08 10:10:09 · answer #8 · answered by Doodles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, it's only necessary to have sex if you want children... any other time it's not a neccessity. Lose him, you're too good for that. Find a guy who will respect you and not lie to you about something so serious.
2006-06-08 10:06:56 · answer #9 · answered by * 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wants sex,and if your not ready than don't do it.He might be facing some problems( right) but are you ready to face a problem too? Like the one that could last forever?
2006-06-08 10:11:40 · answer #10 · answered by Max M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋