if i get pregnant at the age of 15, do you think i should get a abotion, or TRY HARD to take care of it.?

Answer 1

Killing an innocent baby is never the answer. My first recommendation would be to put the kid up for adoption; second, would be to try real hard to take care of him or her. It won't be easy, but there is help available out there for either option. Check with any mainline church in your area.

Answer 2

OK IM EXCITED TO ANSWER THIS QUESTION! I AM 17 AND I HAVE A 7 MONTH OLD BABY GIRL... CUTEST THING IN THE WORLD I MIGHT ADD LOL. BUT I WAS 15 WHEN I GOT PREGNANT I HAD MY FAMILY TO SUPPORT ME... I HAD MY DAUGHTER AT 16 AND I COULD NOT BE HAPPIER.. IM NOT SAYING GO HAVE SEX AND GET PREGNANT... I WAS ON THE PILL BU TIT OBVIOUSLY DIDNT WORK.. BUT IM SAYING IF YOUR PREGNANT ALREADY AND ASKING THIS THAN I THINK FORM EXPERIENCE IF YOU HAVE FAMILY THAT WILL SUPPPORT YOUR DECISION THEN YOU SHOULD KEEP IT ONLY IF YOU THINK YOU CAN HANDLE IT ITS SO MUCH WORK BUT ITS SO WORTH EVERY SECOND I DONT CARE WHAT PEOPLE THINK YES I HAD A BABY THIS YOUNG BUT THINK WELL ONLY BE 35 WHEN THEY MOVE OUT SO THERES STILL TIME TO HAVE FUN! IF YOU HAVE ANY DOUBT THAT YOU CANT DO IT THEN DONT GET AN ABORTION THERE ARE SO MANY COUPLES THAT WANT KIDS BUT CANT HAVE THEM SO GIVE IT UP FOR ADOPTION... THERE ARE LOTS OF COUPLES THAT WILL PAY FOR IT CUZ THEY WANT ONE SO BAD! I WISH YOU THE BEST OF LUCK! AND IF YOU NEED OR WANT TO TALK ABOUT ANYTHING AND I M EAN ANYTHING I WOULD LOVE TO TALK TO ANOTHER YOUNG MOTHER! MY ADDY IS [e-mail] OR [e-mail] BUT ALL IN LOWER CASE LETTERS.. GOOD LUCK!

Answer 3

what do you mean if? Why not TRY HARDER not to get pregnant? at 15, you have the whole world in front of you, live a little bit, graduate high school, go to college, get a good job, find a good man, then think about babies. IF you do get pregnant, TRY HARD to take care of it! Abortion can be emotionally scarring for women. By the way, there are many places that will help you get birth control if money or asking parents for help is out of the question. I suggest you find one in your area, and go ask for assistance.

Answer 4

If you are extremely rich & in love with the father or married, by all means TRY to take care of it. I was 16 when I got pregnant, and abortions where not an option. I never finished high school, his father deserted me. My father disowned me. I ended up working 2 - 3 jobs to get barely by, working in a factory graveyard & a waitress from 11-8pm. I never had a chance to fulfill my dreams of college & a professional career. My friends deserted me, although he is a grown man now I resent the fact that I gave birth to him before I had a chance to grow up. In many ways I am more of a disappointment to myself, he is already been in prison. I am not very proud of what I thought I wanted. Birth Control is a marvelous way to prevent unwanted children from being born. Also RU487 is a great morning after pill. But if your asking this question, I presume your late or probably already Pregnant, run as fast as you can & get an abortion.

Answer 5

Trust me sweety, Everyone I know has regretted an abortion when they get older. It is very hard on your body and even harder on your spirit. It will stay wiht you forever. Take the consequences of getting pregnant and bear your baby. If it is not possible for you to raise this child then give it up for adoption. Think about the baby's well being more than your own. There are so many AMAZING parents out there who would give anything to have a baby but cannot have one of their own.

Answer 6

Because you make a mistake does not mean the baby in you should die. Give it up for adaption and get on with your life. If you abort it the future may cause you to feel bad for what you did. All the people I know that had abortions regretted it later in life. It takes more than money to raise a child and at your age you are not ready for the responsibility.

Answer 7

You can't listen to everyone else. You have to do what is right for you. Do you have a family that will support you if you have the baby? How does the father feel? Does he know? I had a baby at a young age. It alters the rest of your life. Education is important and if your family will support you then go for it. If you don't have a support group, adoption is always an option. But if you feel abortion is the only answer you do what you have to.

Answer 8

dont have sex at age 15...wait and when you are ready go get birth control and dont have sex without a condom.....if you can wait till your married----course i have no room to lecture you since i got pregnant before marriage however i lucked out and it was the man i was planning on marrying in about 1 yr...... if you are pregnant do waht you think is best---abortion can leave you scarred mentally but a baby can cause you to blame the child for a messed up life----you didnt mention adoption but thats anouther option if you are pregnant and cant take care of it but dont feel right aborting it


best of luck

Answer 9

Well thats your Choice. If you feel you can take care of it and WANT to then do so. IF not i do not suggest an abortion. You can take it to any ER or Hospitial and drop it off No questions asked unless there is evidence for them to ask questions. NO Abotion Just drop if off at a hosipital.

Answer 10

Keep the baby. It will change your life. You will be amazed how much you can love and devote your life to such a precious little gift. Plus you will still be young when the kid is grown up. I think all babies are here for a reason, even if you don't know exactly what it is yet. Good Luck =)