my bf want a baby and i cant have a baby and i am trying having a baby. we had s*x and he did c*m inside of me everyday. do you think i get pregnant this time? we been together for 5 weeks
2006-06-08 02:41:01 · 18 answers · asked by xsarahx 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
if you have only been together for 5 weeks then you don't need to be having a baby with this guy.
it is completely wrong for him to pressure you into it like that. the only time that you should be having kids is when you and your partner are in love and ready to settle down and all. don't have a baby just because he wants one. besides the fact of the matter is if you cant have babies then you probably won't have them ever without some kind of help(i.e. invetro). but if yo0u choose to go through with it anyway then i wish you the best of luck.
2006-06-08 03:02:01 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all, rethink if you are prepared to have a child with someone you've been with for only 5 weeks, honey. Not to put a damper on your relationship, but there's a lot you still probably don't know about how this guy will be as a partner and as a father. You need to be very sure about this guy before you go having babies with him.
That said, if you had sex when you were ovulating, you could well be pregant. If you still are not, don't fret. Just have sex when you are ovulating (get a basal thermometer, or ovuation predictor kit, or just chart your menstrual cycle).
2006-06-14 19:18:17 · answer #2 · answered by MummytoBoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's all we need. Another single mother. Are you some kind of door mat that whatever your boyfriend says, you do? Get some kind of lasting commitment from him that he will be around for a long time to help with the baby and financially support you. They used to call such a contract marriage. Most of all, make sure you love each other and that your relationship isn't based on emotional dependency. Too many kids are being born these days without an adequate support system to nurture them through to adulthood.
2006-06-14 21:56:14 · answer #3 · answered by uselessadvice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my GOD. 5 weeks???? FIVE????
okay im sorry, but this is just crazy. Normally i take answering questions here very seriously and i proper try to give solution to the problem as best i can but i cant in this case, because i think it is absurd!!! you have only been together for five weeks and now you are having unprotected sex in order to fall pregnant? just because he wants a baby? i am not even going to ask if your relationship is stable, for how can you know in just 5weeks?! can you provide for the baby? time wise, emotional wise, financially??? will he be there since he is the one who 'wants' it.
i really dont ean to be judgemental but
i suggest you throw asside the trying to get pregnant part, and just, simply, THINK. what is it that you are doing? and what do you think you will get out of it?
2006-06-11 22:46:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in 5 weeks,you will have only completed one menstrual cycle,which means you would have been fertile for a maximum of 96 hours( 4 days).So having sex everyday is not a guarantee to conception.
Slow down,take your time to decide whether YOU want a child..you'll be the one doing the having and the raising,not your boyfriend...
Also let your relationship grow first,the rate at which your'e going,you'll be pregnant before you're sure you want to be
2006-06-08 03:04:00 · answer #5 · answered by Emma Woodhouse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
slow down there girl youve only been together 5 weeks why the hell are you trying for a baby now.put making a family on hols how do you know 2 months down the line you will even still like him why the big hurry
2006-06-08 10:43:12 · answer #6 · answered by Louise G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm with angela....5 weeks and you want a baby? What's the rush? Plus you also say you can't have any?
You need to sit down and work out what you want and if you can get it...
2006-06-15 02:16:59 · answer #7 · answered by Gavin T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have only been together for 5 weeks, dont you think you are rushing things a bit, take things easy , theres plenty of time to start a family !!
2006-06-08 02:45:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like your boyfriend wants the baby, but dont forget you are the one who carries it around, and your the one left to look after it. if youve only been to-gether for five weeks, how do you know whether he is the boy you want to be the father of your children.
2006-06-08 22:06:22 · answer #9 · answered by traveller 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why cant you have a baby? Medical reasons? If no medical then just keep trying
2006-06-08 03:13:49 · answer #10 · answered by dnk0717 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋