He gave a ring.. and now he does not know about being with me..
We still dating... but I wondering could be better that I brake up this relationship with him. I Love him very much!!!
2006-06-08 02:37:46 · 11 answers · asked by Leticia D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sorry english is my second lenguage (it is break up no brake up) We are engaging. He is divorced and still talking with his exwife we argue three time because I asked him to stop talking with her.... We separated one time because of her...
2006-06-08 02:56:36 · update #1
"Break up" not "brake up"...a brake is what stops a car or bike...
2006-06-08 02:41:14 · answer #1 · answered by a kinder, gentler me 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
U like yr b/f, so u shld fight for yr relationship. He obv likes u coz he gave u a ring to symbolise that y're his girl. He snds like he's def into the relationship but now that he's naturally progressed to another stage (giving ring shws this) then he's consciously realised that he's hit anther stage and freaked himself out over it. I'd say kee going hw it was before the ring and let him settle down and realise that this commitment is a gd thing and that it's what he subconsciously wanted and nw needs to realise that consciously as well. I'd leave him be and he'll calm himself dwn eventually and things will be gd. Pple sometimes progress to the next level of commitment naturally, but then they realise wht's going on and things that they've been told by the media or old buddies etc abt commitment seeps in and freaks them out, once he realises that it's not like they said and that it's a gd thing and a choice which he'd already come to terms with himself (or else he wouldn't have got the ring) then he'll relax into it. Hopefully this is what's going on. Gd luck with it!
2006-06-08 09:47:19 · answer #2 · answered by mischief 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So why are you gonna break up with him f you love him loads?? Did he give a ring as an engagement ring or just as a gift?
Having doubts isn't insecurity by the way. He's not insecure, he's just anxious that he's making the right decision. My boyfriend sometimes worries about marriage but that's ok to have anxieties.
2006-06-08 09:41:45 · answer #3 · answered by Bridezilla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe some time apart could be good for him. It worked for my bf after a yr of dating he was unsure so i left he alone for 3 weeks gave him some space and he was the one calling and wanting me to come home.
2006-06-08 09:45:28 · answer #4 · answered by bree30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is understanding. Give him time, probably he's going through a phase of man decision for the way forward. Give him some time. Love will see you through.
2006-06-08 09:42:58 · answer #5 · answered by kcid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO..........you should talk to each other and know whats wrong with your relationship,I WOULD LIKE TO TELL YOU THIS: when u say to some body that you love him/her that should means that you should be together in da bad times and da good times ,that doesnt means that you should break up when it gets a lil hard..tell him that you love him and you'll do anythin' to make this r.ship work im pretty sure that he wants that too...........LOL
thanks for da points
2006-06-08 09:48:54 · answer #6 · answered by lillyshamshom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u tried talking to him and he still is asking the same way then sweetie you need to leave him. Love don't cost a thing.
2006-06-08 09:42:01 · answer #7 · answered by bettyboop9147 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look sweetie if you feel in your heart that you and him need sometime apart tell him but also tell him that this doesn't mean that it is over it just means that you want time to piece this whole relationship together and to see if there is still something there between you and him.
2006-06-08 09:48:42 · answer #8 · answered by sunny_alabama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you give us more details, I'm not sure what the problem is. he's insecure, like in what ways?
2006-06-08 09:42:54 · answer #9 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to work it out.
2006-06-08 09:42:29 · answer #10 · answered by Diabla 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋