In order to make my husband happy at all times, what are the "do's and dont's"?

Answer 1

If you married a person from your side, you know the values and expectations are different . I suggest you get from an elderly person or probably from your mum

Answer 2

I was told that the two things that would make a guy happy is food and sex. Men love food. But they love sex even more. Also show him that he is your hero and that you depend on him.

Try no to get pushy. If he is having a bad day and you ask him what is wrong and he says "nothing" or "I don't want to talk about it, leave it at that. He will tell you when he is ready.

Don't bring up past issues. Leave them in the past.

Just show him that he is number one. He won't be happy at "all" times. There are gonna be time when you argue and what not, but learn from that situation and bring the good out of it. That way you won't be dealing with it later down the road when you thought it was over with.

Every guy is different so just find out what he likes to do and do that thing together. Even if you don't like it. He will see that a love you for it.

Answer 3

1. You cannot make your husband happy at all times and neither can anyone else. 2. The fact that you want to make him happy at all times may set you up for a life of disappointment. 3. As much as anyone likes to be "made" comfortable and felt appreciated, it means a lot that you retain a measure of your own identity and dignity- it makes all your efforts more meaningful. 4. If there is love in your relationship, the do's and don'ts will work themselves out. 5. Do find out what he appreciates by asking or just knowing him. 6. Get inside information on his likes and dislikes from his family and friends(without interrogating them- he might find this annoying.)
7. Do allow him the opportunity to make you happy; give him the chance to feel good about what he can do for you. 8. Do determine and allow him his space and make sure he understands yours as well. 9. Don't over-anticipate his needs; let him ask for things that are not an "expected" part of your routine. I hope this is helpful-I may add some thoughts for you later. Good luck.

Answer 4

"In order to make my husband happy at all times" Are you insane? Life and married life isnt about keeping him happy, what about you being happy? Marriage is a joining of 2 lifes not you taking on his only? Do only what pleases him and you will be divorced within 10 yrs.

Answer 5

W H A T ??????? "Make Him Happy At All Times"????? OMG, no honey, he needs to make himself happy! This has victim written ALL OVER IT.

You need to understand that you don't make people happy, they make themselves happy. Each person is responsible for themselves in this world except for babies and adolescents. Once you're an adult, it's up to you,

Now if you don't adopt this philosophy and understand it and learn to live this way, (you're not going to like this but I must speak the facts and the truth), you are going to find yourself in many relationships where people totall take advantage of you and disrespect you. Men will cheat on you because they deep down are disgusted and don't respect a women who is so co-dependent on them and trying all the time to make someone happy is an "enabler". Meaning someone who doesn't put their needs first. If you don't put your needs first, you can't meet anyone else's. It's for this reason that on planes when there's a loss of oxygen, you're suppose to put the oxygen mask on yourself first then your child's. Why? Because if you don't give yourself oxygen and you faint, guess who dies? Both of you. Get the drift?

So if you want to do "nice" things for your husband, that's one thing. Make him happy? That's just bad self esteem on your part. Hopefully you didn't mean it that way.

Answer 6

Its admirable for you to want to make him happy all the time, however, don't lose your dignity or identity in your efforts to be a satisfying partner...I've heard locker room talk about girlfriends and wife's being such push overs and spine less....and the guys saying they want a partner who is challenging, speaks her own mind and can assure me that no other man can persuade her to wait on them hand and foot....so making someone happy all the time may mean avoiding more serious issues that should be confronted and debated even if they don't make you happy at the time...they may assist the relationship in avoiding sad times.

Answer 7

I don't think you can make him happy "at all times" but you can make him happy in your own ways.

Do: keep some space between you two. Sometimes it is necessary to have time for oneself in order to be sane, to have a good attitude toward the other.

Don't: One of the things men hate is nagging. Please, don't nag for little things. Always ask yourself: "does it really matter? Will it be important five years from now?" So, nagging is the number one complain men have about us.

Answer 8

He can't be happy all the time for arguments and stress make the relationship more interesting and adds value to the love.

Answer 9

Marraige isn't about one partner making the other happy ALL of the time... it's about a cohescive unit that makes an equal amount of effort to please each other.

But to answer your question, your typical male doesn't want to be antagonized too much. Don't seem overly chatty, but be willing to initiate conversation if necessary. "Cuddling" when alone is a nice touch.

Answer 10

you will never make your husband happy at all times. but if you allow him to be the man and give him his space, sex and a good meal he will be happy most of the time.