I have been with my boyfriend for 7 years. I have a son that is not his. In the past year he is not interested in sex from me and accuses me of cheating all the time. So in the last few months I have taken to going out with a friend of mine. He is the sweetest person and I have known him since I was younger. He is a married man but not happily. He has been a great friend to me but the last time we spent time together we kissed and I made me feel so great. He was willing to have sex with me but in both of our situations I decided it was not right and so did he. I do not beleive my boyfriend and I are in love anymore but he does not see it. He blames me for every disagreement we have and thinks I am the problem. When is love just not enough? I have never cheated in the past and it scares me that it came very close to that. I am to the point that I do not want my boyfriend to even touch me because it discusts me. What shold I do?
2006-06-08 02:22:58 · 9 answers · asked by dolphin29 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hey Stefanie,
If you want the honest to God truth, I'm going to tell you right now that your boyfriend is probably getting sex from someone else. And if you have been with someone for 7 years, you should be able to see when you are being played!! It takes a real man to admit when he is wrong, so obviously, he's not one. And when he tries to blame you for everything that goes wrong, then the problem that he has is with hiself. Girl you deserve so much better, you do not need a boy to try to take the place of a man in your life. So if you feel as if this other guy will be better, then I say go for it and leave your childish, idiotic boyfriend alone. Then he will realise that you were the one and you were worth it.
2006-06-08 02:35:33 · answer #1 · answered by victim of love 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
could be a number of issues: He would not love you any further. he's no longer attracted to you anymore. He would not desire extra toddlers. He thinks you cheated. he's to blame 'reason he cheated. Is he over-weight? extreme-blood stress could make that take place. it would desire to be the way you bypass approximately intercourse; while you're no longer into it or no longer perfect or cracking jokes or something that isn't help. additionally, toddlers can carry some lot of ameliorations down below; do you do your Kegel's? playstation that is like an M&M.
2016-10-30 09:53:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you already made your decision and in my mind you already cheated. Don't ruin this guys life. If he really is unhappily married, when he gets a divorce he is yours. Until then, keep your pants on.
2006-06-08 02:29:12 · answer #3 · answered by danzahn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
break up with the boyfriend, but DON'T have sex with the married man..that's just another heartache waiting to happen...he'll never leave his wife..they always say they will but they don't..find someone who's not attached.
2006-06-08 02:27:22 · answer #4 · answered by Syeira 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you cannot stand them touching you anymore or even a kiss then i think its time to get out of the relationship....theres no point in being together..
2006-06-08 02:32:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him and find someone else.
2006-06-08 02:27:48 · answer #6 · answered by Diabla 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with him, not for the other guy but for u....... if u r'nt happy then just do it........ u'll feel better...... to do it for u then for another guy
2006-06-08 02:30:18 · answer #7 · answered by •°♥Ms. SeXy♥°• 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with him
2006-06-08 02:29:42 · answer #8 · answered by ice cream with chocolate 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with him
2006-06-08 02:25:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋