Hes told me that he thinks shes unattractive etc..but it seems like everytime he goes out, to bars, or the gym, he comes home telling me how he ran into her. How is that possilbe, you think its just coincidental.
2006-06-08 02:17:32 · 16 answers · asked by hmoore92003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
They're not just friends.
2006-06-08 02:35:45 · answer #1 · answered by Diana S 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's probably not just a coincidence. Either he's making plans to meet this girl or he's telling her what his plans are and she's just showing up. Either way, their spending time together is making you uncomfortable, so talk to your husband about it. Don't insist that he stop seeing her and talking to her because that will just get his defenses up, but maybe ask if the three of you could hang out. Then you could see how they interact together (and if she's really unattractive) and decide how to proceed from there.
2006-06-08 09:21:50 · answer #2 · answered by ericalsmith2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask her to stop calling and have your husband tell her to as well. It could be coincidental and ask the girl if he is sleeping or messing around with her at all... She more then likely will tell you the truth!
2006-06-08 09:26:50 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Attractions can't be stopped forcefully and if you love your husband try to find out truth from him and if he is not ready to answere or if you are thinking he is lying .. don't force him .. instead you too keep calling the girl and start talking to her.. if there is wrong they will feel guilty .. but don't end up in taking wrong decisions.. may be they are true friends ..
2006-06-08 09:44:34 · answer #4 · answered by sirineni@yahoo.com 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry I am a married women and have been with the man I am with for seven years. he has never cheated on me but I would know if he was. you need to confront this other women.And ask her is she sleepng with your husband.And also tell your husband to stop lying to you.If you can not trust him than either counsling or a divorce thats really the reality of this whole situation .p:s sorry.
2006-06-08 09:30:49 · answer #5 · answered by aloinnc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think it is coincidental....i think he is cheating on you...you need to talk to that woman and tell her that you dont like her talkin to your husband..i kno how you feel cause i have been in a situation like this....good luck
2006-06-08 09:24:23 · answer #6 · answered by Gracee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch out girl, she wants your husband. No man and women can just be friends. Keep a very good eye on him, and if you feel he is cheating let him go.
2006-06-08 09:21:50 · answer #7 · answered by Quiet V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your husband is cheating or thinking about it. ask a friend he doesn'r know to follow him one night and give u the scoop. Or confront her personally-a little in your face conversation with the home wrecker maybe just what she needs!
2006-06-08 09:37:44 · answer #8 · answered by steffilyn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pull up "cheating spouses" online and find 25 characteristics of a cheating spouse. Apply those to your situation. If he's cheating don't fool around, throw him under the bus
2006-06-08 09:30:33 · answer #9 · answered by beagil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
affairs happen with conversation and opportunity. the are talking and they have opportunity.
single girls do not need to be messing with or calling married guys they need to stop meeting even if on accident after being called what crap
he is thinking and she is fulfilling some need of his even if it is conversation. it leads no where good!
2006-06-08 09:26:54 · answer #10 · answered by tinksolderfriend 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would he be okay with you have male "friends" calling the house? I think it is a respect thing, calmly explain to him how you feel. Try not to get real emotional or he won't hear you.
2006-06-08 09:22:37 · answer #11 · answered by Deborah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋