She always sit opposite me with her legs open just far enough for me to see everything, and rubs her boobs up against my elbow when i'm working.she is always dropping hints when my wife is ouy of the room. i fancy her like mad and can't get her out of my mind. WHAT SHOULD I DO .
2006-06-08 02:13:59 · 84 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
RUN, nothing good can come of it.
2006-06-08 02:14:57 · answer #1 · answered by Deborah 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You are obviously finding this very flattering ... maybe you only posted this message so you could finally tell someone (even strangers) that a young attractive woman wants you? But just think how devastated your wife would be if she even knew the thoughts in your and her sister's head. Think how bad you would feel if you betrayed her. Do you have any children? If you love them you will stay away from the sister and be a good father to them. Try and get some love back into your marriage but don't tell your wife what her sister is up to, she will be devastated. BUT you need to put your foot down with the sister and tell her there is no way that anything is going to happen between you. Cut her dead. What she is doing is morally very low and potentially dangerous for you, your wife, and both your families. It might seem like a bit of hot and harmless fun now while it's in your head, but the shame and guilt you will feel if you sleep with your sister-in-law will kill any warm feelings you have for her. Every time your wife smiles at you or tells you she loves you, you will feel sick to your stomach with what you have done. Think about it.
2006-06-08 02:44:25 · answer #2 · answered by Maz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sort yourself out!!! Just remember - bloods thicker than water! If you cheat on your wife with her sister she'll ditch you but she will end up forgiving her sister. The saying is so Korney, but so true... 'you don't know what you have til it's gone.'
Just forget the sister. If she continues, tell your wife. You married this woman and made promises. You 2 should have NO secrets. She should be your life partner and no matter how much you think the grass will be greener - It isn't! Be honest with your wife, but you need to sort out whatever lust you feel for your SISTER-IN-LAW first cause if my husband told me he was having thoughts like that about my sister I'd leave him anyway.
Get rid of those feelings - tell your SISTER-IN-LAW she's out of order, it has to stop right now and if it doesn't tell your wife!
Good Luck
D*
P.S. DO NOT let the sister know AT ANYTIME that you will tell your wife or she will go and tell her that it was you!! BE VERY CAREFUL cause if you loose your wife you'll seriously regret it!
2006-06-08 02:31:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. You are an idiot to encourage her.
2. Why are you reacting to her .
3. This is nothing but lust.
4. See that she is married to some one immediately and get rid of her. If not you are not faithful to your wife.
5. If your wife does the same thing, if she starts the same thing with another person (your brother for example), how do you feel?
5. She wants not only you, somebody to **** her.
6. Ask your wife to do such things, then everything comes to normal.
7. Whoever encourages a thief, is himself a thief (an accomplice)
2006-06-08 02:22:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run, nothing good can come of it. Someone else said that before me, but I liked it so much and it totally fits this question, that I thought I'd put it out here again.
Unless you want to be divorced, broke, beat up, shot, killed, stabed, hunted by her father and brothers, I'd say back off. Whatever signals the sister is sending, ignore them and walk away. Don't even say anything about it to your wife, just stop the sister dead in her tracks by ignoring her.
Think with the big head and not the little one, trust me the five minutes of pleasure won't be worth the pain of the fall out.
2006-06-08 02:21:42 · answer #5 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accidentally call the younger sister by your wife's name. Not too often that she knows you're doing it on purpose, but just enough to drive her crazy!
She's messing with your head, so feel free to mess with hers!
It's all just a game.
Let your wife in on what's going on.
When the sister's in the room with all three of you and does something, you and your wife eye lock with each other, chuckle, and look quicky away. The sister will know:
1. Everyone knows
2. Everyone thinks she's a joke
3. But no one wants to hurt her feelings (the worst thing of all is to be pitied!)
Then keep introducing her to convention nerds and guys with unfortunate names like Larry.
Even you will stop fancing her after all that!
Good Luck!
2006-06-08 02:21:49 · answer #6 · answered by emilsignia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your a fool you better not cheat on your wife!!! She is trying to lure you into her bed shes obvioulsly jealous of her sister. If you fall for that crap then your an idiot. Stop thinking with your you know what and think with your head. Your freakin MARRIED does marriage mean anything to you? If you were smart you would ignore her sister if you do that then she will eventually get the hind and leave you alone. The sister is also dumb as a bag of rocks. What a s l u t ! I mean what sister goes after her sisters husband. Can we say jealous and evil?
2006-06-08 02:18:52 · answer #7 · answered by . 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your wife before the sister gets angry at your not responding and lies saying its the other way around. If you keep this a secret mate and your wife finds out she will always wonder what made you keep it from her in the 1st place. UNLESS! you dont love you wife and dont care if you crush her emotionaly which is exactly what will happen if you do anything about it
AND!!
Think!................What type of nasty, horrible bi*ch is she trying it on with her sisters husband - this girl is bad news my friend and if (please dont) you did end up with her she will do this again as she clearly has zero morals
she is a bad bad person - grass on her then leave well alone
2006-06-08 02:29:05 · answer #8 · answered by heath 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just can't be serious? I think you are totally bluffing because if you're not than both you and your wife's sister are complete dirt bags. Anyone's sister who does something like that is beyond decent. She's obviously got serious issues about herself and exists with absolutely NO INTEGRITY or SELF ESTEEM WHATSOEVER. You're acting purely out of immaturity and a lack of values. Both of you should run away together, you deserve each other! Your poor wife. She deserves SO MUCH BETTER in life than a man like you who can't set clear boundaries with people. That's just grotesquely indecent.
2006-06-08 02:22:47 · answer #9 · answered by Dr. Phil-lys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In another question, you said that you are 27, and that your wife is 5 years younger. If her sister is 10 years younger again, that makes her... 12.
You cannot have sex with a 12 year old. If you have genuinely have urges to have sex with her and feel that you might not be able to stop yourself, then please see a psychiatrist, as you could ruin that girl's life.
That being said, I'm not sure if I believe anything you say; lots of your questions contradict others.
2006-06-10 08:01:28 · answer #10 · answered by Alex should be working 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you are married to her sister. What kind of sister comes on to her sister's husband. So you are trying to say that your wife is not as beautiful as her sister. See the problems with men is that they are all about looks. You are attractive to your sister in law and that is going to be a huge problem in your marriage. I feel as if you don't really love your wife, if you can't get her out of your mind. Maybe you should talk to a therapist, before you do something that you regret. Please don't go on Springer.
2006-06-08 02:20:04 · answer #11 · answered by Quiet V 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋