Cause I've always wanted to have one as a friend and I'm really a curious soul :P
2006-06-08 02:09:22 · 6 answers · asked by Girl Goes Back To The Future 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Ok, upfront, I'm white. I have a couple black lesbian friends and aquaintences, so I'm filtering what I say through those experiances.
Some black lesbians only want other black lesbians. Some only want other black lesbians but will settle for white lesbians because of a lack of black lesbians in the area. Some don't care. Some like white lesbians.
However, it has been my experiance that black lesbians can be kinda insular, in that they tend to be very tight with other black lesbians, and somewhat distrustful of white people who seem pushy. You have to remember that black lesbians have three strikes against them: 1) black 2) female 3) lesbian. That can make them kinda irritated with white people who don't have to go through a lot of the same **** they do. They see white people all the time, so they're not going to go running you down to be friends with a white woman. And they're going to be somewhat sensitive to a person who only wants to be friends with them because they are weird and other-y, especially if that person is white. I'm thinking that the phrase "I've always wantedt o have one of you as a friend" is not going to get you anything but gaping scorn. It makes it sound like black gay women are objects, like "I've always wanted one of those statues" or "I've always wanted one of those dogs". It's.... weird.
Do I think that you can be friends with some black lesbian or bisexual women? Sure. Just don't be pushy or weird about it, and if they're not interested, respect that.
2006-06-08 02:48:16 · answer #1 · answered by dani_kin 6 · 4⤊ 2⤋
No, but I just want you to know that God loves you and he did not create you to be with a women.
2006-06-08 09:46:01 · answer #2 · answered by Reghan 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are plenty. Goto yahoo personals
God loves all gay/Lesbians!!!!!!!
2006-06-08 13:33:38 · answer #3 · answered by azgraywolf143 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give into your fantasies, it's an abomination to God if you act on your fantasy....
2006-06-08 09:14:34 · answer #4 · answered by kimberly k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no ms nasty its wrong get a man
2006-06-08 09:13:42 · answer #5 · answered by shirleypowers1953 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please i ask you to turn from your sexual sin and turn to God for forgiveness!!!
2006-06-08 09:15:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋