2006-06-08 01:41:26 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes. Stay celibate. I went for 2 1/2 years without sex and I survived. My ex also 'offered' himself to me.
Just wait until you're in a relationship with someone where the sex can be more satisfying and not just some cheap thrill you got with your ex.
2006-06-08 02:56:24 · answer #1 · answered by Diana S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For conservative societies, having sex with an ex is out of the question. In those societies, they take sex and family relations to seriously and more or less permanent. And when they break up, whether by divorce or annullment, (no divorce in my country) they stay away from each other and avoid communicating.
If any of them gets married again, it usually create problems when they get in touch with each other again.
In most so-called western cultured (what is culture, by the way in the eyes of westerners?) societies, sex is something many engage in as if it is must a kiss. That is why the value of the woman is somewhat eroded. On the other hand, perhaps they are right in adopting the attitude that sex is just a "kind of kiss" that could be washed with a shower.
Stay celibate, it is up to the person and his or her moral and social upbringing. It is a matter of personal decision.
2006-06-08 02:41:25 · answer #2 · answered by seabug_46 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex? What's that? I think I've heard that word but I forgot what it means. :-)
It depends on three things: what message you want to send, how emotionally stable you both are, and why you are celibate (e.g., religious reasons or lack of opportunity)?
If he has been itching to get back together, and you don't want to, he will almost certainly take it as a clear signal. But if you are both clear on things, I see no reason why not.
There is no religious reason not to have sex with your ex if he is the only one.
Oh yes - very important that you both keep it a complete secret from the kids. They will certainly misinterpret it.
2006-06-08 01:52:48 · answer #3 · answered by at_window 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes , you stay celibate. Do not have sex with your ex. He IS an ex, remember? There is a reason he is an ex. Find a new guy to date, and if it leads to sex in the future, then consider it with him......but not your ex!
2006-06-08 01:57:54 · answer #4 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my God does this sound familiar.No one can really tell you what to do in this matter,but speaking from experience I can tell you that it only lasts for a brief moment,and then what do you do with all the emotions that come after. You are relieved and the stress is gone,but that can be achieved with masturbation.
Besides,how many women do you think he's had since you.If you think he's been celibate wrong!Buy yourself a toy.
2006-06-08 02:48:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there done it. DONT DO IT. I did and it causes to many problems. The kids saw him there the next morning and thought we were getting back togeather. Go out meet a man and have very safe protected sex till your hearts content. BUT DONT have sex with the ex.
2006-06-08 01:51:40 · answer #6 · answered by bree30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't have sex with him its just another potential way to get hurt. If they're only offerring sex then you know that there will never be anything more than sex and you have to decide if you are able to have sex with him without getting emotionally attached..
2006-06-08 02:11:37 · answer #7 · answered by Imogen228 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you stay celibate until you find me, then your search for the best man in the world is over and you wont have to worry about it anymore
2006-06-08 01:58:07 · answer #8 · answered by cwfraggle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
experiance at work here don't do it to much emotional baggage and it'll get all tangled up and you or he could get hurt all over again there is a reason you are exes think about what it was and if you can live with it again good luck
2006-06-08 01:58:21 · answer #9 · answered by buzy_bee_21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not the ex too much hurt could come with it, unless you feel strong enough to have your ex back in your life
2006-06-08 01:44:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋