let me know what u think?

Question

1 of my oldest friends was with this guy who decided he didnt like me coz she told him that i would come b4 him, so stopped going round to her hse so much i thought i should let them get on with it and she would come to me when she needed me and i was right got a phone call he had beaten her up and i had to take her to hospital to have her head stiched up anyway liuke a mug she forgave him and carried on her relationship with him so a few weeks later i went to c her and he answered the door and said i couldnt speak to her so i told him to **** right off shes my best friend and i wanna speak to her now so she came out and we were sitting on her wall and the next thing i remember was being on the floor he had come up behind me ans punched me to the floor he also ran off didnt hang around to get what was coming to him so i called the police and pressed charges on him anyway me and my so called best mate don't talk anymore and i have just found out she's 6 months pregnant

it was her choice for us not to talk anymore well maybe not hers i think he was giving her a hard time about us talking

Answer 1

lifes hard not every does the right thing some people are stronger than others etc if uve done ur best then theres not much else to do, people always realise things sooner or later, just in ur friends case it might end up too late.

is she still with the guy? if hes done it once he'l do it again, and each time it will get worse and worse, ur friend should be responsible and think of her child, does she really want it growing up in that environment, if she lets the kid then it will turn out just like the father, she should chose a better life while she is alive and still can, b4 its too late, uve done ur best, let her know u will always be there 4 her if ever she needs it, if she doesnt have u she doesnt have anyone

Answer 2

This is a tough one. There's not a lot you can do. Its her choice. Its heart breaking to see someone you love go through this. My cousin was in a similar position a few years ago. It took her 8 years, 4 kids and numerous hospital trips before she eventually left. She didn't have any contact with us for those years. He wouldn't allow it. Just let her know you'll be there for her when she leaves him. Hope she sees sense soon. For her baby's sake at least.

Answer 3

She's stupid for not tlking to you because in th end all u have is frienda and aftr that family a dude will come and go and i feel srry for her and hre baby

Answer 4

IN MANY OF THESE KIND OF CASES THE GUY TAKES ALL THE GIRLS FRIENDS AWAY SO THAT THEY ARE LEFT FEELING TOTALLY A LONE I WOULD SAY YOUR FRIEND WANTS TO SPEAK TO YOU BUT SHE IS JUST SCARED THAT HE WILL FIND OUT AND BEAT HER UP AGAIN SOME THING SIMILAR APART FROM IN MY STORY MY FRIENDS BOYFRIEND NEVER HIT ME HAPPENED TO ME AS WELL

Answer 5

You did the right thing by pressing charges.
She will regret the choices she has made

Answer 6

You were right to press charges... And she should have also... As her best friend you should have insisted...

If she is pregnant and still seeing him, you are best out of it all... Move on, let them sort it out... You tried your best...

Answer 7

it's her choice. maybe she have to do it for not you to be involved with it. just wait till she comes back to you again.

Answer 8

it's a codependency she has. you better off lose her as your friend. you did what you can. it's like drug addict they are emotionally addicted to someone even though that someone is no good for her health....

Answer 9

well first off your friend i am sorry to say is stupid. she needs to get herself and that baby away from him. if he keeps beating her she may lose that baby. i will come whoop his ***.

Answer 10

what a complex situation ,
i have no idea ,
call cops
cia
fbi
i dont know??!!