2006-06-08 01:37:24 · 20 answers · asked by missthang 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
u need to dump him its not u its him
2006-06-08 01:39:24 · answer #1 · answered by titania 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask your boyfriend this question. He is the one who can answer you better than anyone else can.
There are several possibilities, such as he is stressed out for some reason, or he doesn't feel attracted to you anymore, or this is just his habit and style of relating women.
Another possibility is that he may be a little shy and he often doesn't know if it's ok for him to touch you or not. And if that's the case, then you can help him overcome this problem by touching and hugging him occasionally. When a woman touches a man first, then this makes the man understand that she will not object to him touching her.
Rather than guessing about what's going on, talk to him and ask him.
2006-06-08 01:57:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was like that in the beginning, and stopped, then he probably has someone on the side...
Sit down and speak with him. Ask him what is going on... Let him know, that if he doesn't want you or start being all of the above, that you are going to move on..
You are a human being and you have needs, that are supposed to be met by your partner/husband.. Don't waist your time, life is too short to settle for anything less, then what you deserve...
2006-06-08 03:17:06 · answer #3 · answered by Torres 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's just using you for a place to stay. Get rid of him and get a real man, someone you will treat you for what you are. If nothing ever happens between ya'll, then you might as well have a pet instead.
2006-06-08 01:40:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i dont know your whole situation but because you are living together b4 marriage he is already "having his cake and eating it too". once a man has conquered (the stuff) he has no other motivation to go for. he's getting all the benefits of a marriage so why should he continue to do things to keep you satisfied or interested if he has no real commitment to you?
2006-06-08 02:07:57 · answer #5 · answered by heresthedeal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Tell him to do all such things. He may be fearing to do and may
be waiting for your signal. Somebody should put the ball into
motion.
2. or start doing it your self.
3. or find another boy friend and dump this fellow.
2006-06-08 01:44:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you're not ugly...okay...What does he say? And question, who pays the majority of the bills. You might just be a meal ticket. Or he may be about to join a Seminary.
2006-06-15 00:55:14 · answer #7 · answered by 4real 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, i give an answer that doesn't involve you dumping him? As long as, u know, everyone's ok with that, alright then, good. Well here's a wacky idea, maybe he respects you and your body, and doesn't want to do anything until marriage.
2006-06-08 01:54:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be under alot of pressure. Take time out to cook him a special meal and try to see if he wants to have sex with you then. Make him feel special
2006-06-08 01:40:01 · answer #9 · answered by sexy girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You most probably should not have been living together in the first place! Wise up!
2006-06-08 01:42:00 · answer #10 · answered by natsubee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe hes not affectionate or he don't know how to make that move talk to him and see if hes not interested or if he just don't know how to show you
2006-06-08 01:47:56 · answer #11 · answered by buzy_bee_21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋