I want to. But don't quite know what to say. Where to start, where to go. (I can do it, when we're doing it, thats easy enough- I think.) Any suggestions? I know its hard on a sight like this, but I'd love some help on this one. Advice. Thankyou
2006-06-08 01:10:59 · 18 answers · asked by zara c 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I do want to do it. I love having it done to me. But that only happened wiyh my prvious boyfriend. This one aint so vocal himself! Its more how to start, I can do it later in the throws of things, but then its always the same! Also my last boyfriend was good and pervy (but a bad man) and what he used to say to me doesnt translate! I suppose I am concerned I won't do it the way this one will like and he'll just laugh.. he laughs at noises I make anyway!!
2006-06-08 01:38:29 · update #1
If you are comfortable with it,then I say go for it. He will respond by giving you some of the best lovin you could hope for!! This kind of talk turns him on and in turn he will want to do more for you.....If he doesn't,then all he is wanting is his own satisfaction. If this turns out to be the case,I would think seriously about how this relationship is going. On a personal note. I love for my woman to talk to me while we are making love. Not that it has to be dirty in nature,but letting me know how much she is enjoying the moment. That in turn makes me want to please her even more. Hope I have been of help....Keith...
2006-06-08 01:20:11 · answer #1 · answered by Keith 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Look up specificly a movie where in one part there is a bit of sex and dirty talk. Get something from there. And always refer to the skin when talking like this. If you refer to the penis, it'll give a different conclusion and imagination.
2006-06-08 08:13:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take an acting class. I took one semester of acting and found that when you have to think about the character and staying in character....that is all it is. Pretend to be that character for him. Once it is over and if he likes it, you can go back to being you. Even tell him you want to be called a different name (could be fun)
2006-06-08 08:14:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It gets so much easier once you have done it a few times I promise. To be honest, the first few times I did it I had a couple of glasses of wine first to calm my nerves and cure my shyness!
Just tell him what you want to do to him and what you want him to do to you. Tell him your wildest fantacies and tell him you want him to act them out for you.
You could also take on a character name, if you get in character then it might be easier for you and you may not feel as shy!
Hope this helps
2006-06-08 08:22:01 · answer #4 · answered by Katty83 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got to be comfortable with it to do it right. If it's just to weird for you, then tell him that. I do promise, that once you start, it will get easier. Just start out slow and go along with what he is saying. It will all come together (no pun intended) Good luck and have fun. relax
2006-06-08 08:12:53 · answer #5 · answered by carolinayaya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey! you! why do you call the talk dirty?
Start doing it by saying something which comes to your mind. Make him happy and enjoy your self. If you start, it comes naturally. This is only a STARTING TROUBLE.
2006-06-08 08:17:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some reason most guys have a thing for dominance...try tying him up and blindfolding him, and tease him...feathers, ice in mouth then kissing/licking, etc, body paint, body chocolate, whip cream...thats just for the foreplay...and then you know the rest
2006-06-08 08:14:40 · answer #7 · answered by crzychickee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is quite normal, just take it serious and funny same time. A couple should be very expressive and open with each other. It will boost your sex up.
2006-06-08 08:20:27 · answer #8 · answered by buttar506 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you ask him if he wants you to be bossy and then depending on the answer you can try roll playing be a police woman or a doctor and really let your imagination's fly
2006-06-08 08:14:41 · answer #9 · answered by tinksolderfriend 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its always best to be open and honest in relationships. Tell him you are shy about it but will work on it.
2006-06-08 08:14:31 · answer #10 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋