I have to do the laundry the next day and i find his underwears in a mess. and i know it coz his friends mom told me very casually that the boyz r upto naughty games these days. She even told me that i should keep a track my laundry panties. the might be being used.
2006-06-08 01:08:29 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
It is common for boys that age to be curious about thing. have a sex talk with him...
2006-06-08 01:14:22 · answer #1 · answered by crispey_honey 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your son is not getting the right advise from you and the hubby. At that age the little willie gets fired up and fantasies get going. Parents have a responsibility to talk things over with their kids and let them know what is normal and not normal. Only by getting their trust and confidence can you keep them from going in the wrong directions later. Do not condemn what has happened but talk about the whole sex thing with him and let him ask whatever questions he has. It might be a good idea to point out what is supposed to happen and also what the price can be for doing wrong. Do not use scare tactics but let Him know std's are around and you can get them very young. Especially if older kids get involved or people with much more experience start having contact with him.
2006-06-08 13:06:04 · answer #2 · answered by mr conservative 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some strange, odd reason, I doubt you are a parent, or a mom asking this question, just by the typos and way you talk, and if not, then talk to your son, and do it in a way that he does not feel like a pervert or that there is something wrong with him. .
2006-06-08 13:27:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
with his friends? like guys? teach him about male and female relationships.
but you do need to talk to him about it, or better, get dad to if possible. he needs to hear what its all about, from parents, not from other kids.
he also needs to know the value of a woman, that these magazines have woman in them that do not respect themselves, and that most women do not look like that anyway. give him a healthy view on sexuality and women. if he keeps on viewing these magazines without someone telling him morals and truth, he will be a horny little sleeze by the time he is in yr 11, and will be sleeping around thinking its okay.
teach him about sex, and the importance of a loving partner, and that women are not to be treated like pieces of meat. they are beautiful and to be respected.
tell him masturbation is not wrong, but it is private and needs to stay private, doing it with others is wrong and he needs to stop it. suggest he uses tissues or something, not his underwear.
2006-06-08 11:43:07 · answer #4 · answered by Bluebird 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time for you to have the TALK with your son. Tell him it's normal and natural to do this but do it in the shower so that there is no mess left behind!!
I would seriously investigate your sons friendship relationships too. If his friends are mutually doing this act with each other I would say supervise them so that this doesn't happen.
I would limit his goings to the friends homes as well. It sounds like the other parent isn't supervising her son enough!!!!
2006-06-08 08:14:25 · answer #5 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok u should be very glad that ur son is looking at play boy it is very naturall it is his hormones . and as u said at the top of the question the were master baiting each other the may not think nothing of it they may think they are master baiting and looking at girls not masterbaiting with another boy the worst problem u have with this question is that ur boy is master baiting each other tell ur son he better stop that with boys (but the play boy is fine no worrys on that one)
2006-06-08 10:47:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your son is at the age of being curious with his personality and his body...and on the process of being aware of his capabilities.it's normal and don't try to stop him.just ask him to do it privately and alone....becuz if u try to stop him,he would do it OTHER ways that would cause a child being an exhibitionist, sex maniac in the future...on child development this stage really happens...so guide him by teaching him about sex and what it does and what should not be done...hope this helps...
2006-06-08 08:14:10 · answer #7 · answered by curious play 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I went through that very same phase but of course that was way back when there was more innocence. Perhaps he should do that on his own, away from others unless his friends character is known.
2006-06-08 08:22:03 · answer #8 · answered by tropicvibe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG the were jacking eachother off wow ur son has to be the sraightest circle i evr seen!!!!! tht is def. wrong u need to talk to him
2006-06-08 11:50:19 · answer #9 · answered by bigt09_avondale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd hurry up and get him counseling...I mean it's okay for him to be masturbating, but helping his friend with it is alittle crazy....and how are they getting the Playboy magazine's @ 13 years old?????? You know they could grow up to be one of our growing pediphile/sexual assault community, please get him some help!!!!!!
2006-06-08 08:17:30 · answer #10 · answered by kimberly k 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sit down and talk to him explain it is a natural feeling that they are having and that there are other ways to express them selves(if your against what he's doing) that may help --try it
2006-06-08 08:15:59 · answer #11 · answered by lifeoftoby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋