how to go ahead?

Question

my life as a person who divorced his wife, so far successful. i dont want marriage commitments. since i deal with female people and their life as a councellor, i have the oppurtunities of enjoying sex. and i am enjoying with their permission. can i go ahead in the same way? i am taking precautionary methods. still i would like to know what will happen to my nature/ will i become a womaniser? after this new brand of life, i am feeling like i am a ever green prince. and that's where the fear comes.

Answer 1

If that is the life you want, then do it. Why should you fit into the mold everyone puts on life?

I made a decision that was "wrong" in many peoples eyes, but I am happy and I feel it was right to do it.

Be careful and mindful that your private decisions do not affect your professional life.

Answer 2

You typed in "councellor". The correct spelling is "counselor". Obviously, you did not make a typo since the difference is more than hitting the wrong key. If you were truly in this profession, you would (a) know better than to pose a question such as this as ethics would tell you the answer and (b) know how to spell your profession correctly. Normally, I wouldn't respond to such a blatant look for (a) attention or (b) rise out of your audience. However, I feel it needs to be pointed out to you that not all readers/writers on this site are as naive as you might have assumed.
p.s. Other spelling/grammatical errors send red flags that your "question" was a hoax.

Answer 3

Just take your time. If you don't feel ready for a new marriage, you should certainly not do that. It would be a big mistake. Enjoy your freedom and try to find a part of yourself you have lost.
There is nothing wrong with your present way of life. Once you meet the right person, you'll just feel that. If not, this is your choice and don't do anything against yourself.

Answer 4

"since i am a trainer by profession, where i am standing as a role model for others, can i continue this relationship, which brings the best in me, in my profession? "

Okay, so these are YOUR words from one of your previous questions. Are you a Trainer by Profession? Are you a Councellor? Which are you. A trainer-councellor? A councellor by day and a trainer by night?
Also in one of your other questions, you said something about working smart woman and expecting that one to be your wife. Are you or are you not looking for marriage?
Putting all of your questions together, I don't think you know who you are or what you want. What do you think?

Answer 5

Depends on whether or not you are having sex with your patients. If so, you are treading on dangerous ground. And your fear is well placed.

You don't say as to why you divorced your wife, so we can't help ya there, but ever green prince, try to remember, women are human too, they have feelings, and hopes, and dreams, and really do not want to be given diseases from each other so wrap it up and take precautions as you journey through the new found forest of freedom

Answer 6

sounds like you have a lot on your mind. i don't see anything wrong with just having fun, especially when it sounds like you have just got out of a long, possibly , bad relationship.but if you ever wanna talk about it, i am a great listener. adabekka.just im me.

Answer 7

well..I would ask you about your religion first that what control people so what its your belief
i think that you would have to be brave enough to face the beauty of this world and life.

Answer 8

Just go ahead dont see behind.

Answer 9

as long as its a physical involvement and both way relationship...go ahead..don't look back..the day ur conscious starts hating ur own body..leave everything..happy *******....