This is the same girl i asked about im my last question, but these seemed like seperate questions to me. So basically, when we weren't fighting we were out together last week. And we always look like we are a couple. So like in public everyone thinks we are, and its like everyone hates you ,even someone i knew called me a sellout and never wanted to see me again, then he called someone who lived in my neighborhood, who punched me in the face as i walked my dog. I really like Lisa, but i mean I don't mind,cause she makes me happy and i can deal with a bit of ridicule, but if they ever did anything to her i'd never forgive myself. if we stop fighting should i still go through with it?
2006-06-08 00:38:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Also, i really believe i am in love with Lisa, but what if my parent's aren't cool with it, i'm 15, so i'm stuck here. My mom, for instance, is fine with me dating, but she says she never wants me to date a white or asian girl. But i love Lisa...and that isn't just going to go away...
2006-06-08 01:40:07 · update #1
yes,I do believe in interacial dating its fun to get to know someone outside of ur race w/o being all siddidy and what not. If she makes u happy; u should stay w/her as long as her ridicule is tolerable....I mean u should stick w/her.U clearly like her so be a man and show her what u are workin with.............lol
2006-06-08 00:43:01 · answer #1 · answered by Phoenixx 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm white, and that i ought to date black women individuals in the adventure that they were my type. Race isn't a ingredient for me, fairly. you have not to any extent further something to sense undesirable about. you're 15 and also you have not had a boyfriend. properly, enable me allow you to comprehend something. i'm 21, and that i have not had a female friend. and that i do not fairly comprehend any women immediately that i ought to wish to bypass out with. (And no, i'm no longer that choosy both. and that i'm regularly occurring searching too.) So, in basic terms be affected man or woman and ignore what people imagine. i'm particular there are a variety of of white men who ought to bypass out with you. yet you need to make the mindset, because they're going to many times imagine the same way you've been. and do not get discouraged by ability of rejection or people's reviews. those obstacles are absolute to be there whatever. good success!
2016-12-06 12:11:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happens all around the world with people of all skin colours...
Only fails where the people are in societies of small minded bigots (and that can be black or white societies)...
Where racism blossoms, then there are issues... Best to live in a place where it isn't just accepted, but just isn't noticed or cared about as an issue anymore...
Several of my friends have had long term relationships and marriages with people from different ethnic backgrounds...
If it is meant to be, then GO WITH IT!!!
2006-06-08 00:45:34 · answer #3 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you truly care about her, GO FOR IT!!! Why should you not be with her because of other people's ignorance? It's so sad that this is still a problem in our society. My son is biracial and I can't get over people's hate. God bless and I truly hope things work out for you and Lisa.
2006-06-08 00:46:25 · answer #4 · answered by fungirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To hell with what everyone else thinks. People are people no matter what race, color, or religion you are. You would think by now things would be more acceptable but it does still seem to affect everyone around you. If you really care for her and you think your relationship is worth fighting for- then go for it. There are only two people in your relationship, you and her. Who cares about what everyone else thinks?
2006-06-08 00:51:04 · answer #5 · answered by krisaquarius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
our world is so ridiculous that it can't look past color,i say if you are both happy go for it, the people who ridicule you obviously are unhappy somewhere in there life that they have to take it out on you. Be happy nobody should tak elove away from you.
2006-06-08 00:45:31 · answer #6 · answered by mimismom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes brotha, be strong and continue to have an open mind. Those people are just plain ignorant and hateful. Shes your friend and when things get tough, she will be in your corner.
2006-06-08 00:45:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happens everyday pal. Screw race who cares? Only ignorant/closed minded people have a problem with that.
2006-06-08 00:41:25 · answer #8 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as love is concerned, race isn't and shouldn't be an issue.
If it is an issue, you have to look inside. You figure it out on your own.
2006-06-08 00:43:50 · answer #9 · answered by Adam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart. Be with the one you love. Love knows no bounds, especially not colour boundaries.
2006-06-08 00:41:39 · answer #10 · answered by smurfette_au2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋