whatever i expected from my wife, i never recieved it. but i am recieving from this new lady . the fine thing is both are not expecting anything from each other. we are enjoing our sex. my question is, since i am a trainer by profession, where i am standing as a role model for others, can i continue this relationship, which brings the best in me, in my profession?
2006-06-08 00:38:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Expecting anything from anybody, however close that person might be, is the start of grief. Having experienced it once, why do you expect it from some one else again? Not committed to what?. If you find such a person, mind you, you'd be more unhappy. Change in your attitude brings happiness - not changing wives or husbands
2006-06-08 00:57:06 · answer #1 · answered by Kraichnan 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You have your doubts about the relationship or you wouldn't be here. It's a good bet that she has doubts too.
That's the beauty of a non committed relationship. She can move on when she gets tired of your insecurities without any guilt.
Of course this will make you reconsider making a commitment to the next love in your life.
You'll probably keep making the same mistakes if you really believe your ex was responsible for the divorce for not doing what you expected of her..
2006-06-08 08:23:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does your profession have to do with your personal life? If you are worried about your standing as a role model then dont bother about it. People especially kids look up to people who are honest and frank in their dealings and are open about themselves.
As long as you are not rumoured to have a separate partner each night it should be fine. Hardly matters whether you are legally wed or not as long as you have commitment between you.
Have a good time. Good luck!
2006-06-08 07:45:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surely you tell people to follow their heart's desire (within reason)? If so then you are being the perfect role model. If you are a happier and more content person then you are probably helping your clients more. Hapiness on the inside shows on the outside and people feed off that =)
2006-06-08 09:41:38 · answer #4 · answered by sticky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course u can. just make sure ur "lady" is cmfortable and ok wid woteva u r thinkin of. i mean, u hav sex cuz it brings out d best in u? dats wierd.
2006-06-08 07:42:44 · answer #5 · answered by She Who Must Not Be Named 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never mix work with your personal life. And didn't you already ask this question earlier??
2006-06-08 07:41:56 · answer #6 · answered by angel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn to say no
2006-06-08 07:44:10 · answer #7 · answered by Peter B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋