Can I trust a newly married female friend to not discuss my private issues with her husband?

Answer 1

Probably not. It's not a matter of disrespect to you and your issues, but when you get married you become a partnership, a country of two with closed borders. When people who know me say, "Don't mention this to anyone!", they know I'm going to tell my husband, because he's not "anyone"!

Ask your friend. She may feel differently. Either way, I'd bet she'll be honest enough with you to tell you whether she will or won't discuss your issues with her husband.

Answer 2

Heck no...and even if she wasn't newly married, or married at all, you probably still shouldn't trust her with sensitive information because she may just tell anyone, forget the husband. For most females, it is next to impossible to keep a secret a secret. The juicier it is, the harder it is to keep quiet.

Answer 3

Depends on how well you know this individual. Don't put such matters to trust - its not fair to burden someone like that. If you don't want her to tell her husband, best thing to do is not to tell her at all. If you tell, be forgiving if she does tell her husband because it is unlikely that malice is involved.

Answer 4

Depends on whether she can keep a confidence... But most married couples have no secrets... :(

Answer 5

Nope...
but you can more than likely trust him not to let you know that he already knows.
he'll act like he knows nothing and she'll tell you she's never said a thing....so you're good.

Answer 6

yes you have to trust her coz she don't say anything about your private issues ,

Answer 7

don't issue her your privates

Answer 8

No way!