what should i do ?
2006-06-08 00:21:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
make your choices wisely
2006-06-08 00:23:26 · answer #1 · answered by ranger_girl 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I know husbands that are having sex without being divorced from their wife. What are you worried about?? If you are divorced you are in your rights to find your happyness. Even if that means thinking about other ladies. It is normal for a married/divorced guy to think of women in sexual ways... so, don't worry you are not hurting anyone by doing that... it is healthy... it means you are still alive and that the divorce has not broken you as a man. Go ahead on a date, experience what is out there safely and protected. Enjoy your brand new life and at the same time give yourself an opportunity to be happy!!! Good Luck!!
2006-06-08 07:26:34 · answer #2 · answered by La Princesita Boricua 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seein' as how you didn't give much details to your situation, it's kind of a hard question to answer.
To a lot of people, you are a free man. If you are happy to do it and are sure you won't feel great pangs of guilt afterwards, cool. However, if you think that you're going to drag your emotional baggage into it, maybe you should wait till things cool down a bit and relax being single for a while.
2006-06-08 07:25:49 · answer #3 · answered by daria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should take some time to think about what you want before you go off having sex. Make sure you have fully moved on from your last relationship before you initiate any sort of relationships with other women. It wouldn't be fair to them or yourself, nobody wants to be the rebound of somebody else's relationship.
2006-06-08 07:24:54 · answer #4 · answered by saparrrapah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that you are getting your priorities wrong. Before you even think of being with someone else, you need to sort out yourself and be sure that you know exactly what you want.
Otherwise the devorcing will become a regular feature in your life and eventually bleed you dry.
2006-06-08 07:24:25 · answer #5 · answered by Sean F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well good for you.
Now stop sitting at your computer and go out and get some before you forget what it was you wanted. If you want you can come back after you get it and tell all the rest of us that are not getting it what it was like. LOL.
2006-06-08 07:27:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are completely divorced then sure it is OK to start looking for other women but I would make it clear to these women if you are or are not looking for a relationship so as not to hurt anyone
2006-06-08 07:24:07 · answer #7 · answered by skits 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are divorced, and you are attracted to someone else i say go for it, but you should be careful, about starting in a new relationship so soon after your marriage just ended. why did it end anyway?
2006-06-08 07:24:46 · answer #8 · answered by sarah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a rel relation not a pass-by relation
and the best solution is to try to turn back to your wife, especially if you have childeren , you must sacrifice
2006-06-08 07:26:40 · answer #9 · answered by anas b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it you should do it to find where you need to belong and if you find your wife is still the 1 try to stay in her life.
2006-06-08 07:24:26 · answer #10 · answered by INOTFRIEND 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go ahead, with proper precaution, of course. But what makes you hesitate ?
2006-06-08 07:25:15 · answer #11 · answered by ksrinimurthy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋