they say it is an experiment but i was like no and she was still asking me to think about it and plus i had a boyfriend at the time and i am totally not like that anyways. plus she's kissed another boy before and the guy i was going out with at the time was her ex but we both agreed we didn't care if we went out with each others ex's. she was also obsessing over this guy that had already told her point blank that he wasn't interested and so she always makes up excuses just to see him and she even plots up ways to make him kiss her or to kiss him and his girlfriend is a mutual friend of both of ours! she gave anther reason for wanting to kiss me as a way to practice for when she kissed this guy she's obsessed with and so that way we could tell each other if one another was a good kisser. i have nothing against gay or bi people but this totally is freaking me out any outside advice on why she wanted to kiss me and if i handle the situation okay etc. etc.
2006-06-07 23:56:44 · 24 answers · asked by LLAMA PHANTOM LOVER 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
kissed another girl not boy
2006-06-08 00:27:16 · update #1
Tell her that you just would not feel comfortable kissing her. Tellher that it is not necessary for her to even question about it when the answer is no.
2006-06-17 15:44:53 · answer #1 · answered by A 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This girl sounds like a manipulator. I would not keep her as a friend, solely on the basis that she cannot take no for an answer. She sounds like somebody who will do whatever she can to get what she wants and you don't need someone like that in your life. I would tell her in no uncertain terms that you are not interested in kissing her, and if she can't seem to understand that, then tell her she can find another friend. If she tries to contact you after said conversation, then do not answer the phone to her or answer to any other type of contact she tries to make. She will eventually get the hint. It's not about being against bisexuals or homosexuals, it's about protecting your rights and the right to say no.
2006-06-17 15:07:56 · answer #2 · answered by Angelwings 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You handled the situation properly, you were were uncomfortable about kissing your best friend. That's how you feel and she shouldn't want to change that if she's really your bestfriend. She might be bi or just curious or she might still be trying to decide her sexuality. I would suggest you ask her yourself, that's the only way you'll ever know.
2006-06-08 16:39:49 · answer #3 · answered by hearts99992000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds a little crazy. Tell her she needs to slow her roll and you are not intrested. You just need to sit her down and be honestly brutel with her. If she is really your best friend then she will get it and she shoudn't be asking you things like that anyway.Tell her there is to much to life than kissing a boy or girl in her case.(Not saying she is bi)
2006-06-15 16:03:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything you don't want to do. Never let anyone pressure you. Just tell her, straight up, No! And tell her to practice on her hand or something. Cuz she's lieing to you anyway. Sorry to tell you---but--she may be bi. Yea, you say she's been with guys, but there's always a possibility. But like I said, Don't do anything that makes you uncomfortable.
2006-06-08 03:06:06 · answer #5 · answered by la. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL. alot of girls practice kissing with their friends but if you're not comfortable with makin out with your friend then tell her to stop beggin cuz it'll never happen. and if shes so desperate for a kiss then she should find a guy whos interested. maybe shes bi
2006-06-08 05:32:35 · answer #6 · answered by sprkls2004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she may be very insecure, and just wants to feel like somebody finds her attractive. If she really is your best friend, make sure she understands that you like her a lot but you just aren't interested in kissing another girl. It might be a good idea to be hugging her while you tell her this, so she doesn't feel like you are rejecting her.
2006-06-08 00:52:14 · answer #7 · answered by pondering_it_all 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So you are uncomfortable and the anser is no---but you can surely find a willing guy friend for her to practice on with no strings attached!
2006-06-08 00:16:21 · answer #8 · answered by mama2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell them I have no desire to kiss them I want to learn to kiss with a boy.
2006-06-17 12:27:19 · answer #9 · answered by HastyBabe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm if she truly your best friend then she would understand where you are coming from and she would stop asking you. only way for her to practice is to go find some guy to practice with.
2006-06-19 10:36:59 · answer #10 · answered by jay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋