2006-06-07 23:45:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you are lacking totally in self confidenance honey, stand up and be strong, look at yourself in the mirror and stay to your self that you deserve better and he will always be a cheater and a looser, move on girlfriend he will keep doing this to you com on get tough with yourself respect yourself dont let him do this too you anymore go on you can do get rid of this jerk
2006-06-07 23:48:53 · answer #1 · answered by pebblesandkara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The mere fact that you took him back as many times as he cheated on you is something that I ponder about. It could be because you love him very much which only you could answer. If you do, he might be taking advantage of your deep love for him that he is not afraid to cheat on you because he is sure that you will always take him back. You should tell him that women have a certain level of understanding and that when the glass of understanding is full, there is no other way but for the water to spill. Tell him that that spillage means letting go. You deserve respect as a woman and his repetition of his infidelity is a slap on your womanhood. Are you happy having a relationship with someone who does not consider your feelings? I know that the hurting is there everytime he snaps. You have to put an end to his womanizing attitude because when he gets accustomed to that, chances are, if you marry him, you will suffer a lot. And when are you considering to part ways with him, when you are already married? That's a serious decision that you will do in your life.
Talk to him sincerely and tell him how hurt you are everytime he cheats on you. Give him something to think about. Tell him that you cannot live on with that attitude of his. Imprint in his mind that if he does that again, you will just let him go and live your life without him. If he really loves you, he will have second thoughts on doing that again for the fear of losing you and that fear is what you should create in him.
2006-06-08 07:00:01 · answer #2 · answered by Ruzzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happened to me once.
I got cheated on about 9 times by one girl.
You're happy with the way he is or perhaps the front he puts on but he'll never change. If he will then it's too late. Perhaps once is understandable to take back and work with but never more than once.
2006-06-08 06:50:46 · answer #3 · answered by Duane G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pls dear try to b yourself. He is not caring for u thts the reason he is cheating u. Leave him & go ahead. Always remember THE SHOW MUST GO ON.
2006-06-08 06:55:41 · answer #4 · answered by Muskaan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you understand that. he keeps on cheating on you just because HE KNOWS THAT YOU WILL TAKE HIM BACK AGAIN. Begin respecting yourself and dump him. You deserve better. I can believe that you forgive him so easily. I would have NEVER forgiven him.
2006-06-08 06:55:14 · answer #5 · answered by atrabel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me it's him not you. and it's because of the way he was raised, not to respect women, because I went through it with my then kids father his mother worshiped the ground he walked on and he did no wrong, but knowing good and well we were together he took the girls over to her house and if I called he's not here and for that matter him and his 3 other brothers all did the same thing because their family thought that it was cute and funny and like to see people get hurt and get their feelings hurt, but then she passed away and still up to the same games one of the others got him 5yrs locked up so I guess that will wake anybody up, but I wish my sons would grow up and treat women like that it's all about how you raise your sons, don't disrespect women then you don't have anything to worry about.
2006-06-08 06:55:56 · answer #6 · answered by dari98dae99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you have low self-esteem. You need to understand that you are worthy of someone being good to you. Do yourself a favor and kick him to the curb and find someone who you deserve to be with.
2006-06-08 06:53:04 · answer #7 · answered by fungirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u always take him back thats why he's still cheating, dump him girl! u deserve better.
2006-06-08 07:03:44 · answer #8 · answered by SeXyBaBe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's always hurting you, he's not the right for you. leave him and find someone who deserve your love and will not cheat on you.
2006-06-08 06:48:41 · answer #9 · answered by babypards 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl dont take him back the next time, u aint worth his time
2006-06-08 06:47:04 · answer #10 · answered by AppleSoda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋