2006-06-07 23:20:44 · 15 answers · asked by lonelybeth 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
WE NEED MORE INFORMATION ,TO ANSWER THE QUESTION
2006-06-07 23:24:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's one for the boy! I would get out of work and go have a couple cocktails with my girlfriends and not call. I know this isn't good but I wasn't doing anything wrong. Now we are getting a divorce because we found we are to different. He sits home and I don't. Cheating is to easy to yell at someone and then lose them. Always be sure of something like that. So some like to go out drinking after work but that's it.
2006-06-08 01:15:36 · answer #2 · answered by jonesi0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now I can understand if he needs to hang with the fellas after work every now and again, but after hours have went by and no phone call, then something is up. What happens when u try to contact him?
2006-06-08 03:50:14 · answer #3 · answered by Mama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MEN LIKE SOCIALIZING AFTER OFFICE HOURS BECAUSE THEY WANT TO UNWIND FROM HEAVY WORK SCHEDULES, SO THEY SAY. BUT WIVES ALSO DESERVE TO REFRESH THEMSELVES EITHER FROM HOUSEWORK OR OFFICE WORK BUT MOST OF THE TIME, THEY ONLY SPEND THEIR AFTER-OFFICE HOURS AT HOME.
SOME HUSBANDS, THOUGH, DO NOT REALLY GO FOR UNWINDING, BUT HAVE AN UNFAIR THING TO DO AGAINST THEIR WIVES WHICH IS WOMANIZING. I DO NOT SAY HOWEVER THAT YOUR HUSBAND MAY HAVE ANOTHER WOMAN. YOU SHOULD USE YOUR INSTINCTS TO KNOW THAT.
THE BEST THING FOR YOU TO DO IS ASK HIM. YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO ASK YOUR HUSBAND REGARDING WHAT HE DOES AFTER OFFICE HOURS OUTSIDE YOUR HOME WITHOUT YOU RECEIVING A CALL FROM HIM. ANALYZE HIS EXPLANATIONS IF VALID. IF THEY ARE, AT LEAST YOU CAN CLEAR YOUR MIND OF WORRIES AND ANXIETY. IF THEY ARE NOT, DO SOMETHING TO KNOW THE REAL REASON WITHOUT TELLING HIM ABOUT IT.
THE RIGHT TIME WILL COME THAT YOU WILL KNOW THE ANSWER. ACT FROM THERE.
2006-06-08 01:31:28 · answer #4 · answered by Ruzzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you had afight then he's being an *** and trying to worry you,or he's getting drunk with the so called boys. You need to find out what's going on as soon as possible. Use any way you have to get this done. It could be all inocent but find out girl. Good luck to you..
2006-06-07 23:30:20 · answer #5 · answered by shell-b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's as obvious as the question you just asked. Hubby is up to NO good. Probably is cheating or has something to hide.
2006-06-07 23:51:02 · answer #6 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could just be looking for a little "me" time. A time to be away from you and your kids.
Dont' jump to conclusions until you find out for certain.
2006-06-07 23:24:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him unwind...it wouldn't harm your marriage..Dont be too paranoid it would only ruin your marriage....what you need is a visit to the parlor and have your hair done...
2006-06-07 23:25:30 · answer #8 · answered by bea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes with somebody.. you should understand that males are like this.. just take good care of your kids, cause that's your responsibility as a wife
2006-06-07 23:22:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better you check this up. He might have another woman.
2006-06-07 23:24:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be he got some emegency work, or busy on some work.
2006-06-07 23:26:22 · answer #11 · answered by victoryismine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋