What does it mean when he says this??

Question

What does it mean when the guy you love tells you he still loves you, but continues to go out with other people?

Answer 1

It could be that this guy is not ready to settle down just yet. Have you asked to make your relationship exclusive? Perhaps he's polyamorous. There are any number of things it could mean, but the fact that you're asking the question would seem to indicate that there's not enough communication going on in the relationship. You should talk to this guy and tell him what you expect, and why it surprises you that he tells you he loves you but continues to date others. Ask him what he expects, too. What do each of you want from the relationship, and what is important to you?

Answer 2

it means he loves you, but he's not ready to settle down. He doesn't feel the deep love that commitments come from for you.

So, tell him you love him, too, and keep seeing other people, and keep yourself open to find more of what you're really looking for. Are you looking for social status, or are you looking for the real thing? (*hint: the real thing is much better).

Answer 3

it means that he is just sayin that he loves u when he realli dont. i bet that he doesnt even kno what love means when he says that he loves u and is goin out with other people. So basically, he's just usin u as his rebound.when he cant get the girl he wants he goes back to u and expects somethin from u. i'd leave him.

Answer 4

Definetly taking advantage of you. Dump him or tell him u need the space . if he is really interested, he will come back. At least you will know where you stand.

Answer 5

He's stringing you along to see if someone better comes along. Cut him loose and find yourself someone who will appreciate you.

Answer 6

it means he loves u but not satisfied with ur body