is it wrong to look for sex outside of marraige when your partner no longer has any interest in sex?

Answer 1

I don't think it is wrong. It would be wrong only if you were not discreet and your partner found out. Don't hurt anybody.

Also, consider your partners attitude. If you think she would be understanding then go for it. If you think it would kill her, then maybe you should just consider the vow you took.

Answer 2

Yes I believe so. I think you need to find the reason why.
What is causing your partner to not want sex? Is there a medical problem? Do they have kids and a job and are always exhausted? Are they not enjoying it? Why not? Are they interested in some one else? Are there other issues in the relationship causing it to be strained? (I think there probably are if you are seeking elsewhere) Have you tried a counselor or a sex therapist? There are many reasons why a person may lose their desire for sex that has nothing to do with their partner.
Seek causes/reasons, solutions, and help before seeking a new lover.
Affairs tend to come out sooner or later. The pain a person feels when they discover their partner's indiscretions is unbearable and takes a very long time to heal, especially for women. It is a devastating blow. ( talking from personal experience here).

Answer 3

Yes it is definitely WRONG. . Where there is a will, there is always a way to get your spouse interested in sex again. Could it be a health issue? You married for better or for worse.
The answer is not always found in sex, it could be a matter of a lack of trust or of the way you respond to each other outside of the bedroom. If you have worked on this issue and found that you have differences that cannot be reconciled (sex not being one of them) then, you need a divorce before you get entangled in a sexual relationship outside of your marriage!!

Answer 4

the best thing to do is to talk to your partner about the situation the two of you are in. why he/she has no interest in sex anymore? remind him/her that this is one of the duty of a married person to his/her spouse. the truth shall set you free. it's best that you found out about the truth earlier so that you will know and look for a solution to the problem. sex is one of the factors that strengthens marriage. maybe your partner has a problem that he/she losses interest in sex. it's best to seek professional help like a marriage counsellor or sex therapist before you go look for sex from another person. you might regret what you did in the future if you go on with your idea. illicit affairs lead to broken families and children always are the victims or you might get very sick (like hiv/aids).

Answer 5

Nothing is wrong as long as it does not hurt anyone. After 80 years nothing will matter to u. Where will be ur wife and where will be you. All useless talks. Go do what u like. Dont believe these girls. They are just useless animals without brain.

Answer 6

You know that it is wrong...but we live in the world of selfish people...We think that if we cannot have what we want, we will look for it somewhere else disregarding the promise of love and vow we took before GOD...That's why I wonder why people marry..and I have realized long before that promises are made to be broken....

Answer 7

its up 2 u 2 keep ur partner interested

Answer 8

Marriage implies a lifetime commitment of sex...

with one person only...

forever.

If a woman wants Fido to be a good dog, she can't leave him chained under the porch.

Answer 9

If you can't satisfy you're partner, who was at a time the closest person to you, I am sure you won't be able to satisfy yourself with anyone. Of course it is wrong.

Answer 10

yes. It can be resolved mutually. Just need to talk and convince. if not yeilding anyting then let know your intention to other partner. May be this can help.