2006-06-07 22:00:19 · 19 answers · asked by Jane Doe 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If life before marriage is better, why get married? Sure life beforehand is fun, but we dont stay young forever. We grow up and move on. Some marraiges are heavenly, some are hellish. Nothing in life is gauranteed. Some childhoods are heaven and hell too.
Some people just aren't the marrying type. Lets face it, there are all types. I say all life is good, and that include both single and married life. Life is great as long as some butthole doesn't make it miserable...
2006-06-07 22:05:45 · answer #1 · answered by jack f 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't think that you must get married. Most marriages end up with both being miserable. Why? Because people are in too big of a hurry to pair off and have kids before they even know themselves. The person you are in your Twenties is completely different from the person you will be when you're thirty. I wish everyone would wait to have kids and or get married until they are at least thirty.
2006-06-08 05:46:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are both good in their own ways, but to determine which one is better, it all depends on the one you choose to marry, some people can't wait to get out of their marriages, while others wouldn't let go of it, if the world was on fire, or would burn in hell just to be with their spouse. That is a question that can only be answered by the one living their life.
2006-06-08 06:09:57 · answer #3 · answered by tennessee_cherokee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life before marriage because you spend your time looking for the one to marriage which is Fun
2006-06-08 05:47:12 · answer #4 · answered by scarlet pimpernell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before marriage you are controlled by your parents , which is bad & good ..bad because u cant do all what u want & good because u are not responsable at anything ( money - kids - ...)
after marriage ... you are now a partener !!!
u are free to do what u want .. u have to think about home & how make everything work
i m happy that i m married , sometimes i miss the old days ... but really now is better !
2006-06-08 05:08:14 · answer #5 · answered by semsema 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life can be a pretty rough trip either way. It's how to handle the problems when and if they come up, and whether or not you can keep your cool, that counts in the end. Being able to solve life's woe's is about the best either way.
Hope this helps with your intentions.
2006-06-08 05:15:05 · answer #6 · answered by Tash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both. I'm lucky to have found the man of my dreams we had 2 kids before we got married and then another after that. And it didn't change anything between eachother is the same and always well be. I love both of it.Before and after it's what you do to make the best of it.
2006-06-08 05:23:55 · answer #7 · answered by *QeEn-BeE* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After marriage. It's wonderful. A lot of work, but wonderful.
I know that no matter what, he's in my corner.
10 years of marriage, 13 years together and I couldn't be happier.
;)
2006-06-08 11:57:20 · answer #8 · answered by iam1funnychick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you still married? If so I would say after mar rage. But if you have ever DIVORCED then of course before is better, because there's nothing worse then going through a divorce.
2006-06-08 05:22:12 · answer #9 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after marrage
2006-06-08 05:06:02 · answer #10 · answered by ghoraba75 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋