i feel bad for myself?

Question

last school year i was helping my friend with a project for the leap tests. so i went to the class that she had to do the project in (i was with her and this was during the seventh grade recess so there was a 8th grade class in there). then i heard some one say hi to my friend and then i heard a who is that ulgy girl with her(from a diffrent person). i started feeling really bad for myself. i know im not the most beautiful person in the world but what that person said really hurt. what should i do

Answer 1

I'm sorry, I know how you feel though, I've been a target before too and it does hurt. The best thing to do is to try not and let it show that they are hurting you though, the more you show that they are getting to you the bigger there high of putting you down so they'll continue doing so. Also don't stoop down to their level be a bigger better person then them and don't say/do anything back to them, just smile back at them (also helps by showing that it doesn't bother you). Besides it's not what's on the outside that makes the person, but the inside that makes a person shine. Those people that said such a cruel hateful thing about you are pitch black inside and insecure about themselves so they target others to help them feel better about themselves.

Answer 2

ignore what the person said about you if they are in a grade ahead of you then they are going to look for every reason to degrade you. people at the junior high age are so obssessed with what they hear people say but they don't hear enough good things about themselves. it sounds like you have already accepted yourself and are happy with the way you look. if it was a guy or girl it doesn't matter because with guys they all have different tastes one person may find you to be the prettiest girl alive and the next just average looking its the attitude that stands out and makes a person genuine you normally can tell a person who is confident from a person who is shy and very introverted as long as you present yourself the way you are you have nothing to worry about. just remember confidence is everything looks are only there for so long so have a positive effiction on life not one that is afraid of one person's meak and meaningless comment. compared to what everyone else says out of the whole day it is a lame thing to remember and beat on because people will say worse and you cant let it affect you trust me ive done the same thing and it didnt work.

Answer 3

young people can be sooo judgemental... dont worry i believe you are beautiful person no matter what... i wanst the most attractive person either, but i used the other good qualities that i had, if people cant see beneath another persons looks then they arent worth knowing, its whats on the inside that counts, and if they dont know that now then they arent going to get far, you are two above them by learning this valuable lesson now... bitches is all i can say!!!!

Answer 4

most young kids just try to be big deal and dont care who they hurt as long as they seem cool.

Do what Jesus does. Forgive and treat them as a friend, at the end they will prolly be the one feeling bad and maybe you and that person will become friends

Answer 5

you must have felt really sad, but sometimes kids say that sort of stuff not because you really are ugly just they have not got the intelligence to think of any thing better to say. people often say things they should not, and its normal to feel bad, i hope and pray you feel better, remember, you are a child of God and beautiful and precious

Answer 6

Just ignore it. Ugly is those who say others ugly 4 silly reasons

Answer 7

IGNORE THE PERSON!!!



beauty isn't fOund in ur physical appearance

but

itis fOund within!

Answer 8

just ignore the person......some stupid people will always have nasty stuff to say about others. remember beauty is skin deep

Answer 9

just be cool in dealing with your problems. make sure to be more confident with yourself.